So I am a new kid again and this time I was approached by a girl and got immediate kino from her and numerous "IOI's" from txts, conversation, body, language, etc. Now for many of you, this might be awesome but being new I am just looking for friends and even though the girl is pretty (around a 7 or 8... on my scale, for her age, and I'm super picky) I feel that it is just better to keep her a good friend.

She pretty much invited herself to my house after she knew I lived on my own and said she wanted to watch TV at my house (which happens to be in my bedroom and the only thing to sit on was my bed because I just moved in). So we started talking about sex and she kinda jumped on top of me demonstrating that she likes it when a guy gets really physically aggressive with her. I really had to hold myself back, but nearing the end of the movie she was giving FTC's and when she finally left she seemed sad and I let her know that I was trying not to have anything happen and I wanted to be friends. She sort of agreed but continues to give me kino and IOI's more than that of a friend (e.g. rubbing my legs) so I am wondering should I just say f*ck the friend thing and be friends with benefits and risk her getting attached, or play it safe and stay friends until I get more adjusted but risk losing her sexually?

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The New Kid

What is really the problem here?

If you want a friend, leave it at that. If you want sex you escalate. No one can tell you what you want, that is entirely up to you.

- Exerio

Fuck her mate, if u keep rejecting her, she'll get pissed, and u can say good bye to the friendship...
The way i see it, the friendship is over, cause she wants it, and no common sens talk or anything, can change her mind.
Fuck her and get it ove with...BUT set the terms right, friends with benefit,no attachement, and shit like that...if she get's emotional, break it off.
Best of luck

This is just your fear getting in the way. You obviously like her but you don't think you are ready for her and deserve her. You never will feel like you desrve girls until you actually have them. So take the plunge and take this all the way!

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Alright then, fear no more... I have already started to make some other friends to fall back on now, I just hope its not too late she hasn't been texting me as as much the last 2 days. I'll have to jump to it fast...

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I just got more IOI's in txts... we were talking about a raincheck where shes going to make me brownies and come over to finish the movie at my place. then she said she doesnt want to lose me as a friend but that its hard because im so cute. while im writing she just said she isnt lookin for a relationship but she cant keep her hands to her self and shes used to getting what she wants. I ask what do you want... so ill post it up here when i get an answer.

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The New Kid

she says "nothing nothing" and changes subject but she said she was a virgin... she is 3 years younger than i am and im 18 so its believable but is it worth risking still because its steriotyped that virgins are clinging with who ever is their first. Also the age thing is a bit odd for me but my friends say that its not like im being a pedophile or anything. She really does look older, but i fear that if i do risk going all the way shes gonna get attached and get angry that im with other girls and either get really sad or like spread shit through the school making me a bad guy... highschool drama is lame.

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The New Kid