I'm actually a rather experienced seductionist, I'm just new to this forum, so sorry in advance for posting this question here...

I've always have had rather good game with women, but my game has even improved further now that I've come across this whole PUA lifestyle about 2 years ago. But the major problem I've been running into lately is getting to mid game or late game and girls dropping lines like..

"with all the girls you've been talking to tonight you must be a real manwhore"
"are you this smooth with all the girls?"
LMR before sex: "how many girls have actually slept in this bed?"

this has been a thorn in my side for a while now any insight on how to deflect this or at least put it right back on them? I've been great at breaking down their anti-slut defense, but what about when they go on the slut offensive?

Firstly I would spend time talking to people of both genders so you can avoid the first question entirely. If you are just talking to women you clearly are giving off the impression that you have intentions. Regardless to answer your question I would respond to the first by saying "I like to meet people and have a good time, is there something wrong with that? to the second "(give a playful confused look and start stroking the back of your hand) It feels a little rough actually" pretty much avoid the question. For the last I would probably laugh if that was said to me and tell her she sure knows how to kill the mood.

"Yeah sure... and you are jealous? [smile] "Just the ones who think I'm sexy." "When? Today? Well... actually you're number 17... no... 18. But look on the bright side - none of the girls actually slept." [delivered really playful]

If you don't want to get this things just show some vulnerability. If talking to many girls for example tell the one you like that you do this because you feel a little insecure. Then go back to normal. This way she won't think you're a player because you show that you're vulnerable so she won't be so defensive around you.

"with all the girls you've been talking to tonight you must be a real manwhore"

That's Mr. Manwhore to you.

"are you this smooth with all the girls?"

No, I am off my 'game' once in a while.

"how many girls have actually slept in this bed?"

I lost count

Women love the challenge/excitement associated with a player, don't let these b*llshit comments shake your mindset. If anything, they are testing to see how you respond.

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"with all the girls you've been talking to tonight you must be a real manwhore"

Nice! At least you won't be surprised when you get the bill.


"are you this smooth with all the girls?"

Only to the ones that are attracted to me. So yeah, to pretty much all the girls ;)


"how many girls have actually slept in this bed?"

Slept? Not that many, I'm good at keeping them awake.

I just roll with it whenever I get accused of being a player/manwhore.
So, I just agree with her (almost sarcastically) with a sneaky grin to make her think she's being silly...
But I love some of the other responses I've read here - good job guys!

That one was nice.

You have to have some easy cocky/funny comebacks man.. it isn't harder than that.

with all the questions she asking;

1) she definietly intrested in you
2) she maybe testing you in congruency, sorta like a mid-game shit test

I like the answer Sinful had. shows you that you hold true to your frame. Reguardless of how truthful your answer is. She will still be intrested. Now giving the fact she asked that question. you might break out of frame and like reverting to MR nice guy and just lose that target with a "well i'm not really a manwhore" ect ect ect.. dont do that . Short smart witty answer will do you justice. Also notice her body language and facial expression while she asking you

1) is she serious or joking with you?
2) is there a sense of nervesness?

that sometimes will help you determine a fit responds to her.

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