Ok, I got my first number from online dating!!! Woo Hoo! That is a big step for me so far, cause the results have been shit after 2-3 emails. But she contacted me first, I practiced some lines I learned, and got her number last night, text today, and she told me to call her!! Now I need HELP. What to so, what NOT to say, be funny, a smart-ass? Talk too much, too little? Ask questions about her, or talk about me?

dude! how about you practice more on trying to not care so much man, really that is like the #1 thing i see guys do ALL the time is CARE TOO MUCH...should i do this should i do that omg what if i did this wrong....no offense dude but you sound like a little whipped bitch alright o i hope i dont upset her man dont let her control you she is only a woman you do what you want man and if she doesnt like it screw her and go find another, i also recommend talking to more then one girl at one time meaning be receiving calls, hanging out with and making calls to more then one girl until you get the whole care too much under control that way you dont put to much focus, care, and concern on one girl and blow it...

of course though do change for the better into what you want to become for sure, but as your transitioning be who you are in the moment and dont try and put up some front for the girl cause you think she will like it man once again you are in control and call the shots not her......so please stop worrying so much bout what to say what to do and do what you want...cause yeah everyone wants to be dating a chick or chicks but to date a chick who is comfortable with you and not someone your trying to be is what you should be aiming for......

but improve to be a more cool, confident individual who doesnt really care what those females think....

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mPUA Savior nailed this one. you gotta have an attitude that says you don't care. But that the same time you need to speak with authority and confidence or no chick is gonna want to carry on a conversation with you.

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Thanks for the help.

I did it! We talked for a LONG TIME last night, which I know is not the way to do it, I know your supposed to like end the call after 15min? Well it just felt too damn good and the convo went very well. Im very proud

I need a high five!!

I don't know why everyone is so wary about talking a while. I mean I understand that if you at least keep it up, you can eventually work out something nice.

If the conversation is awkward and you keep it going for hours just because you NEED someone to talk with, then you are making a huge mistake. If you two really connect, then that's different. Which is to say, if you are saying the right things you will connect fine.

Also, I don't know so much if its about caring or not, the thing IS, you WANT to come off as you care about her (make some sort of effort to find out how you could do that), without seeming like a complete tool. All the while, you are still a man and will not cry like a baby if she denies you even after all that converstion. Instead, you will go on and find someone else. (if that's the case)

Although its been said all women are different, this is only true in their tastes, etc. On the inside, most women want the same things and most are very frigid and insecure. Recently, I've found a woman who doesn't give a shit about what other people think. She CAN appreciate things, like conversation (and she's not a fat, ugly chick).

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