Plenty of interesting people with different stories.

Women want a man to look after them, they want to be dependent! sometimes they crave that so much that its scary. They fear aging, and going over a certain number, as they've been freaked out by the millions of stories about women who are older and get no one in life, and end up alone.

They have this constant reinforcement from their family and television which exploits their vulnerability to force them into a certain lifestyle.

Very few women grow beyond that! It takes something extraordinary in a person.

Men are in a equal situation.

its best when both people have met after they've gone through their own personal growth!

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

A hot women who is also high value (so not just a hot shell with nothing inside) wont date an ugly, boring, poor, untalented guy.
Fact.

How many guys have absolutely nothing going for them? Not many. Actually, I can think of very few guys who have absolutely nothing attractive about them.

How many guys can learn new skills or highlighter their attractive qualities in a more effective way? NEARLY EVERY GUY.

You also have to remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, now this isn't just fairy tail feel good myths either. Humans will find different people attractive because they will subconsciously look for features that demonstrate genes that compliment their own and produce the "best" offspring.

Now before you start telling me I am just saying this to make me feel good, I am good looking, very intelligent, musically and athletically talented. And before you ask why I am here, its because EVERYONE no matter how good they are CAN IMPROVE. I can still improve and I can help others improve.