Its a bit long, but please read it.
And if you have experience in this matter please share your thoughts.
It means alot! Thanks.

I met a girl a month ago, my buddy knew her.
My buddy was very drunk and insisted that me, him and her should start a band..
(He's a drummer, I play guitar with a little vocals - she's a fantastic singer/dancer).
She added me on FB saying: When do we start?
We met twice (all three of us), and last friday my buddy had to go after a while and there we were all alone.

It was a hot day, so we went out to buy some ice-cream and took a halfhour walk back to my place. Then we sat down talking for like 4 hours about everything.
Then I walked her home, and the walk lasted for about 2 hours.
It was one of the best nights in my life. A band was playing down at lake we walked by, so we took our shoes of and got into the water for a bit.
She showed me some moves and we ended up dancing there in the water, under the stars. It was magic.

When we got back the her place she said:
Im not very good at theese goodbye's
I just said: Well, I am..
Then we kissed for maybe 2-3 minutes.

She texted me 20 minutes later saying:
This was the best night ever!! Im so happy right now.

We met 2 days later. She came over and we madeout for hours and hours.
Then we had sex and it was great.
Now we text and talk on MSN everyday.
I've told her I like her.
She has told me she likes me.

The problem is she a student in a town witch is 3 hours away.
Im beginning to fall really hard for this one.
She's beautiful HB8, smart, funny.
Serious GF material, and I havent had anything serious for over 2 years.
I think Im ready for this, I could even see myself moving to where she lives.

She's coming to visit me this weekend and we're gonna do some fun shit.
This is only like a week old, so what do I do?
In my experience its better to just let things happen, the way they should.
I dont think Im gonna talk to her about "the future" or anything.
Just gonna make sure we have a good time, and If she wants to get serious
I'll simply aggree and try to make it work somehowe.

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I think you've nailed it yourself.

It still is only a week, so I'd calm down talks about the future. Don't get too attached either. The more attached the more needy you behave.

But you've hit first base so technically you're bang in the driving seat.

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I agree! You know what you need to do but you are like me. I can sometimes get caught up in the moment and let my emotions control my actions instead of controlling my emotions with my actions.

If you truly want this woman to be a part of your life she will. Don't think too far down the road, be in the moment, enjoy "what it is" & not "what it will be" You don't need to add any aditional presure to a new relationship, they already have enough challenges.

You are right when you say have fun! Focus on having fun and slowly check out where things are headed and evaluate them as you go. You know what your doing! Every once in a while though we all need support to refocus.

Patience my friend, patience. You'll be just fine, I'm sure of it!!