A relationship with this girl ended nearly 2 years ago. We stayed in touch for over a year afterwards, but the last conversation wasn't too nice. She basically told me to move on (I would foolishly send her random texts at times after a few drinks), she was going off to New York with a guy who she was marrying. I replied with wishing her the best for the future, was sad that our friendship was over and I never wanted to hear from her again.

So, to my surprise (or not as I had a feeling she might one day get in touch), she sends me a message on facebook. She's sorry for what she said and did before, that's all.

Now, before I'd have thought nothing of it. Perhaps, she's just being nice. She's become a nice person again. But.....I know that there usually is a motive behind one's actions. I'm thinking she's loney, missing me, wants to get in touch. But I'm trying to decide the best course of action.

I've broken it down to:

a) Delete the message and make no response. Just keep on moving on in life.
b) Thank her for sending it. Short and sweet, but no more, no less.
c) Give her a hard time about her attitude before and tell her where to go.
d) Bust her balls, go back to attraction and try to start over again.
e) Accept the apology and just be friends again, being nice.
f) Be all wussy like with her, probably like I was before when we were together.

Now, I know it would help if I told you what she means to me now in my mind. Well, I pretty much catch myself thinking about her in some way nearly everyday even after 2 years and yes I have moved on, been with a lot of girls since. However, I had great moments with this girl and I've learnt all about The Game since that, I'm curious to see what could happen, and it'd be a challenge to try to get it back on. She was very much in love with me at the time, more than I was with her by far, she wanted to marry me, but I turned her down a few times. She seems to have taken care of her appearances since we broke up and looks real hot.

So guys and gals, what do you think? Best way ahead.....

I'm leaning with the go back to attraction, go with the C&F, the new me since I was with her and see just where it goes, but I'd like some feedback from others.

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Stop living in the past. You had a relationship with her and its over move on. You really need to work on your needy behavior. Just from reading your post its very apparant how bad and pathetic it is. Just because you read The Game and whatever other material on PU doesn't mean shit if you don't understand and utilize the material effectively.

Part of progressing in realtionships and PU in general is understanding of how to move on after a LTR. You need to read up more on this before you attempt another realtionship.

So to answer your question a) is by far your best bet. If/when she contacts you be nice and brief but definately no more drunk dialing/texting.