You: So what do you do?
She: Well, Im a ....
You: Really. I would never have guessed that/ Im not surprised, you seem like a person who...

Follow up:
You:But I bet you didnt dream of doing that as a kid?
Her: I actually wanted to be a...
You: (if its common) Amazing, first time I've heard that.
(if not) Intersting.. How come?
Her: Bla bla..

You: (Have a sweet little story packed with DHV and emotions and what you wanted to be and how you still are working towards that goal or have infact forfilled your dreams. )

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

Thats great
, its simple but effective and an easy transition to a situation you are in constantly during comfort building.
Its three sections we all use anyway, but neatly stacked and loaded into the convo.
Its essential to have your career DHV story prepared and practised, this comes up in every pickup

The only negative thing about this that the girl might be bored
of her job, and talking about makes her bored.
So the question should maybe not be: What do you do?
It should be:
So, what kind of amazing stuff in your everyday life?

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

this is similar to mystery's bait, hook, reel, release.

recent phone call;

the bait- me:so you are a nurse, is that what you've always wanted to be or did u somehow just end up doing it?

hooked- hb tells you what she has always wanted to do , what she likes about being a nurse in this case and what she thought about nursing before she started

reel- me:thats amazing, i like nurses and their kindess,niceness etc (discribe a quality nurses have) and i love their sexy uniforms (just to keep the tone to attraction)

release- me: am sure you're really nice but the thing is nurses tend to be a bit over the top in niceness (negate quality you both agreed nurses have earlier). You maybe fun right now but you'll probably change and be like all other nurses



She will then start to qualify herself. And it allows you to build rapport by understanding other's childhood dreams. After this routine you dont need to be Einstein to figure out where to expand