I have a 3rd date set tomorrow, with a HB7. We met once at a bar, exchanged numbers, and went out again for dinner and drinks. Reciprocal kino took place, but ended the night with kisses on the cheeks.

Tomorrow we're meeting for a movie at 6pm. We're both eating separately, prior to meeting, since the movie is 2.5hrs long. From the small amount of info I've read, k-closing in a movie theater is a bit cliche, but it's the 3rd date and the sexual tension will most likely be building.

What should I do? Proceed with the kino during the movie and walk her to her car afterward for the k-close? I'm back in the game after 4 years, so I'm a tad rusty.

Just do it!

Heck I would be tempted to start the date with it.

" Hey you seem nervous, relax we'll have a great time. I have a little surprise that should help you relax. *fumble in pocket/bag and stop* Hold out your hand and close your eyes "

Then kiss her.

Don't know if this will help you, this is just what happened in the last movie date I had (tend not to do them cause doesn't leave much time for talking) I let her touch me.

This isn't planned, it's just what happened and turned out well. Basically I sat with my ankle up on my other thigh, so that my knee is pointing out (I usually do this) but it's crossing past the arm rest into her space. I guess this gave her the opportunity to touch me first. Her arm was on the arm rest and she let her hand fall onto my knee. I could tell this was driving her nuts because she was keeping her hand perfectly still, even while talking and doing other things, because wasn't sure if she was allowed to because I wasn't moving and just may not have noticed yet.

Soon it was obvious that I must know about it (she and I had shuffled a bit, her hand kept bumping my knee), but I didn't move away, so she started to push the "boundary", and started gently drawing circles on my knee while watching the movie. It was exciting because it was all her, I was doing nothing, and it was almost like boyfriend girlfriend behaviour even though it was just a 2nd date.

We ended up going home for an F close, and started dating for about 4 months She was really really into me, so it was a little different than usual.

Goin to the movies..
3 years ago in bigtime AFC days I managed to get a date with my boss ( I worked at a callcenter).
Things got really exciting over with some internal e-mailing.
She gave me her number, the date was on: First eat a muffin at a coffeehouse, then movietime.

We had nothing to talk about, it turned out.
And I didnt know shit about the game back then.
We ended up watching the movie 2 hours - in total silence.

I drove her home and she just stepped out of the car saying: See ya!

Thats was shit. Anyways... If you dont kiss her during the movie try this.
(its AFC Adams stuff).

Go in to kiss the right cheek.
Then kiss her left.
Do this pretty slow..
If she's still there (not leaning back) you go for the k-close.

Its magic!

Best of luck!

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I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

TheJ, excellent.

I think it was Style that said dont wait until the end of a date to kiss her, do it at the beginning or half way through. I cannot remember his fundamental reason...but it was a good one!

One reason is that if you kiss her in the beginning of the date (even if its a fairly drawn out peck on the lips), the schoolboy nerves go away as its now out in the open and both of you can relax and be more 'forward' towards each other on the date. (As opposed to waiting in suspense the whole bloody evening thinking of how/where/when youre going to kiss her.)

ps. you should never be pondering about this as it will f*ck your game up due to being indecisive (which will ultimately cause nerves.)