SO I started conversation with a drop dead chick on a dating site this is how it is going: I didn't find "PUA FORUM" site until mid point please cut me some slack. You will be able to tell what I used ad didn't. I want to keep things frech so looking for advice. This is a long one. A weeks worth the texts. PLEASE GIVE SOME COACHING!!!
Initial email:
Title: Hey good lookin'
Now don't get too excited, but I was planning on opening with a proposal but maybe a conversation would be a better way to start. What do you think? Hope to hear from you gorgious.
My Name
Hi [My Name], Conversation is fine for now. Love the pics and the blue eyes. Sarcastic and a tease? I don't know ... just kidding, hope to hear from you soon. Take care,
Me:
Why Hello, “Good Looking” [Her Name]! Your message put a smile on my face
! I’m glad you like my baby blue’s. You’re going to have to stop with the compliments because I’m starting to blush. I’ve been told they are even more stunning in person. I guess we’ll have to see how this whole “conversation” thing goes to see if I’ll have a chance to show them to you.
And yes! I can be a bit sarcastic. I have a tendency to do it in a playful way. Do you like to flirt, smile, and have fun? I know I do. And once again, Yes! I do like to tease and be teased. It’s always nice leaving a situation knowing you would like more. It’s also a great way to get to know a person. So enough about me, what about you? I see you are Hispanic (Sexy!!), people and relationships are important to you (Wholesome!!!), and you’re looking to make friends or a long-term relationship (me too!!). So how do you like to get to get to know people? Converting on email? Over drink/food? Exercising (Walking/hiking/some activity)? Talking on the phone? Or a combination of all? I hope it won’t take as long to hear from you this time! But take all the time you need….
Her:
Hello, As I'm writting to you I have a big smile on my face
Well, I'm not a big talker on the phone, but would not mind sharing my number with you. Yes, I am looking to make friends, if among those friends there is a person that chemitry is evident and inevitable, the relationship escalates to a long term I will welcome it. I dont like ur eyes anymore, everybody comments on them - is no our special thing anylonger
I am hispanic, from PRico, still have a little bit of the accent and lots of the attitude,(jk), my parents moved to Milwaukee on a job offer my dad recived to pratice Psychology here back in the 80's so we all made the move. How do you feel about the age difference, you are 31 ( Im assuming soon to be 32 -1977) I'm 34 - and you know what they say about repecting your elders?? can you dig it? Sorry it took me so long for me to reply to you. I work a lot 50+hrs a week ( thats my excuse !!) My # is xxx-xxx-xxxx, feel free to call me or text me. Talk to you soon
Me:
Wow!!! I feel very privaleged. I will txt you sometime soon! In the meantime I hope your having fun.
Her:
was that sarcasim ? lol..
The next day I started to text...
Me:
I'm not always sarcastic! And what is this with not liking my eyes anymore? I'm not so sure about you...
Her:
Hello! about your eyes - that was a jk.
Me:
I'm so releaved! I was thinking I was going to have to rely on my charm alone!
Her: LOL. How was ur weekend?
Me: Great finishing it up with a little volleyball. How about yours?
Her: Just woke up from a nap. So far so good, it aint over yet I'm off tomorrow
Me:Both sound nice! The Nap and another day off. What are the chances of u working some magic and getting me both?
Her:I wish I could make that happen for you.
Me: SO what are you doing with your night off?
her: Watching true blood with my mom and sister - it's our thing on sunday's
Me: That's the vampire series right? I hear it's good! Watching entourage with friends as we speek.
Her:Yes the vampire series. Never really watch entourage herd is good. Now watching Watchment.
Me: The movie?
(No reply this night) I new I had to step up my game so I went to the internet and researched and found this site.
Her: sorry I fell asleep, yes the movie. So good to have the day off & do nothing.
Me: Now your getting me jelious and I'm not the jelious type. How was the ovie?
Her: I fell asleep inthe middle of, so far so goos. Beautiful day today, took my dog hikking. I wish everyday was like this.
Me: Hiking! don't do this to me!!!
Ha! Yes.. I thought about taking my bike, but it was dog or bike.
Me: what kind of dog?
Her: Cocker Spaniel
Me: What Color?
Her: Buff, Male and very over protective
Me: For some reson I figured he would be overly protective
Her:
Me: Stop
Her: I don't want to, wait stop what?
Me: Thinking about me! I'm getting chills
Her WOW! How you know? u are not normal, I like htat.
Me: It's almost 80 degrees and I'm perpetually cold! I'm not sure what to do about it. Are you saying I may have to learn to live with it?
Her: Maybe, I can stop if you want me too. I don't want you to be cold
Me: I'm afraid that next week when I go on my fishing trip I might have to pack more clothes! 'Cause I'm not so sure u can!!!
Her: LOL! Bring your winter coat, where you going fishing?
Me: Canada. THX! I will pack accordingly. So you had a good day off?
Her: Canada!! That's far. Yes I have so far - I even showers today
now getting my hair done. Love having an entire day to myself.
Me: So what are you doing with your heir?
Her: Just blow drying it. If I don't it gets nappy :-p
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Her: I don't think I've asked you before- do you have pets? Is the dog in the picture your dog?
Me: Roomate Does! Boxer. I used 2 have a golden retriever. Both I think are in the pics. I LOVE dogs.
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Me: Have had problems w overly protective ones though. JK
Her: Well that's awsome! My dog can sense stuff like that. He over protects me - he can sense danger to me...jk
Me: Plans for the evening?
Her: Yes, meeting some friends from out of town for wings and catching up. Do you?
Me:Not really, trip planning, laundry, and dog walking. Routine stuff, you know?
Her: Nice planning on going to the state fair?
Me: not yet you?
( Some time passes)
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Me: Wher u asking me out or just tesing me? I like the tease- keep me waiting! Have fuin with friends.
(No reply that night)
( Or a lot of the next day)
Needed to step up game.
Me: Congradulations
Her: Why Funny Face
ME: I was just thinking of you! Congradualations =)"
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Me: how was your day?
Her: Had a good day today. How ws your day?
Me: Great Day! Watcha doing
Her: Brothers bday party. What u doing?
ME:Nothing that fun! You are quite the buisy bee, aren't you.
Her: Not really, just lately
it's summer, lots of bday and people getting together - it all goes away in the fall LOL
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Her: Just got home, I'm about to water my plants and take the dog for a walk
Me: Still up? 10:00 PM
Her:Yes just got out of the shower ready to go to bed.
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Her: Are you bartending tonight?
Me: No fridays
NOW I CALLED HER AND WE TALKE FOR AN HOUR AND 45 MINUTES
The she starts the day off with a:
Her: Now you did it, thanks
Me: WE did it! WE DO IT n bed! WE DO IT on the sofa! WE DO IT on the table! WE DO IT in the car! WE EVEN DO IT at work!!! YUP.. WE LOVE TEXTING.
Her: I am looking at my phone right now with amazement. Can't stop thinking about you. How's your day so far?
Me: Fair I have some thngs I have to kock out. Hows yours?
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Me: Are you on Facebook?
Her: Smooth Yes I'm on Facebook, Y? U want to be my FB friend?
Me: No!
Why would I want that?
Her: Y not?
Me: OK! If it means that much to you =) Youhave to do the invite though.
Her: It means the world to me
I will send you an invite later today
SO she was born in Peurto Rico and english is her second language so I text her this later that night.
Me: Parece que voy a tener para aprender a espanol asi puede comminicar mejor con mi amorcito futuro! Usted parecen ser hermoso el interior y hermoso en el exterior. Por que tan cansado ?hoy en dia? Estoy no esta serguro si traduje esto correctament. Hable ningun espanol!!!
Translated: It seems that I will have to you learn Spanish so I can comminicate better with my future honey! You seem beautiful inside and beautiful outside. Why is so tired? I am not this sure if translated this correctly. I speak no spansih! (Hopefully)
Her: Aweee! tThat was sweet. Almost perfect. I think the weather makes me tire. Nice translation- how did you do it?
Me: Creatively
Causal talk about spanish for a while
Me: I leave Sunday morning 4 my trip. have a Wedding Saturday night, and work at Swig Friday night (after day job). When are we ever going to get the chance to get together?
Her: I don't know what to tell you, I'm pretty busy too, when do you come back?
(Done for the evening..I id not reply that evening
Me: U just popped into my head, so HI!! Now stay out fot a bit and let me get some work done, THX
Her: Hello! Question, is Swig wher the old Souce used to be?
Me: Yes!
Her: I used to go ther all the time
Me: Why you thining of coming in?
Her: When tonight or friday?
Me: Friday
Her:I mght stop by
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Her: only if you want me to.
Me: That depends! Are you going to be nice? Can I also ge something on the books for the 22nd? Either MT. biking or a Devils Lake hiking trip? I promise I'LL be nice.
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(No Reply)
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Me: I know you said you're busy but I'm meeting a friend at "Jazz in the park" If your plans change you should stop by!
Her: I'm painting sorry! Perfect day for that. have fun
Me: No need to appologise! I don't really want to tell yoou but you are missing some excellent salsa music. Can I call you later?
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(No reply)
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Me: You're Unbelievable!!! Not even a hone call since we last had "Text" ... LOL
Her: Sorry I'm in bed already have to be at the dialysis center at 6 AM. Can we talk tomorrow?
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Her: 6 AM tomorrow Morning.
Me: You bet! I just wanted to sy goodnight and sweetdreams. =) How can I tell you are a great person? Sleeptight.
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Me: or should I say, suenso agradales! (Pleasent dreams)
And now what do I do. If you atually read all of that I would appreciate some feed back. Won't comntact her until tomorrow. trying to get her to come visit me and stay playfull. you knw. She is a PERFECT 10. haven't had one of those in a while. I Lvoe the company of a beautiful woman.
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