oBorno what Moa4720 said is NOT true at all!!! Moa I find his post to be of a rather serious nature for you to be bringing him down like that. If a girl is into you they are not going to care about how many friends or lack there of you have. Mystery Method can work for anyone.

Having to depend on your friends to make positive improvements in your life is a beta male attitude

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Awww EasyLover, I'd use you as a Pivot anyday.

Anyone can open a set if they think they can. It is all about the social dynamic you portray. You dont have to have every friend in the world, just be confident in your game. Who cares if he has a true friend base? Make everyone think you do and run your game. You just have to be a good story teller to portray the image to them you want them to see. I know it sounds like lying your ass off, but sometimes you got to do what you got to do...

Yea moa... watch what you say... you should know this by now... every last word affects people in both the game and with friends.

Dude, the game will change your life in more ways than you will know. You are a built 6'6" black guy? You have more potential than you assume. I guarantee that after 2 months of learning the game, your life will be so drastically changed that you won't recongnize yourself anymore.

Just be careful sarging when you are feeling depressed. When you are learning the game, you are bound to be hurt more than a few times... but this scarring and experience will further solidify your strength as a PUA and with friends. The stronger and better you become, the more people will latch on to you. You won't have to look for friends or girls once you know how to control yourself and the game. Your transition to the new you starts now.

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i'm trying to help him. i just think that it will be a huge step for him to take creating safety nets in clubs/bars. usually if one is in that sort of friends situation at 25 it is because of deep rooted issues. but the meet up and wing section might not be a bad idea for him.

For someone local to meet up and help would be great for him. Let him learn a bit first, then someone take him into the field. Where is Born located?

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i am only talking out of personal experience. sure you don't need hundreds of friends but if you can't keep a few you need to work on that before you start your journey to pua. especially now that the show is on tv and awareness of the pickup community is high, it will be very hard and i personally think more damaging to his being if he tries to jump into this with his way with friends.

i say this from a caring standpoint. i used to be like the op back in the day.

I'm located in newyork in the county of rockland
soo i fairly close to the city
Easy everyone thx for all the advice And i agree with what Moa4720is saying. In social cirlcles Ie: Work, school I have friends. It just intergrating them into other aspects of life like hey lets all go out to the club of see a movie. thats when things come up like oh man i gota work
or sorry can't go out tonight. I understand these are areas i need to work at before I start really diving into the game. And in all honesty i have no fear of walking up to people that i don't know. but this usually only if they're friends with a person that i know.
What i'm going to learn is to walk up to complete starngers that i've never known before and have no common thread and try to intergrate myself into the social group. Cause hey i'm still young my life isn't over just another obstacle i need to blast out of my way.
thx everyone

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it's crazy reading that. you seem like my exact personality back in the day. i'm sure you will make it though. i wish you luck on your journey.

dude, i don't have the best game. i didn't start getting girls on a week to week(or month to month depending on my life situation) basis until spring 06.

i used to be you but fat, shaggy hair, barely making any money, drove a shitbox and hated life and everyone in it. all that has changed except for the money situation and hating everyone in life(i do love life though). my friends would consistently cock block me, i had no confidence and needless to say was the punching bag of the group(not literally but basically used to get the alpha male status in the situation). all it took was one girl, her name was desiraye and all she wanted was a guy who would buy her things and hang out with her when SHE wanted. it took a cunt like her to make me so pissed off at the world i set out to destroy all women in my path.

basically just get out there, i lucked out and landed in some money, got a decent car(cars and photography are my passion) and joined the top car club in my state(with the exception of probably a long island one or something of the likes). thats when i got new friends, started picking up from them with a fresh start on how to act, i grew mentally because of them. i would periodically return to my old group of friends until they got sick of me turning the tables on them and i got kicked out of one of their apartments. never looked back.

i have a big forhead, a beer belly, i ALWAYS get razor burn, dont have a job(leaving for the marine corps soon) and basically im the male version of a ditz but it doesn't stop me from getting girls. all it took was confidence.

here's what i also did. told myself how awesome i was, listed the reasons i am and basically stopped caring about what people thought. everytime i was in a check out line whether she was ugly or a HB i would flirt her up, any waitress i got, any girl i knew was slightly into me but i'd never date. doesn't matter. boost that fucking ego!