Hey guys,

I'm new to these boards so hello to you all! My first post is asking for advice on a situation that is coming up this Wed.. I will be going out with some old friends that I haven't seen in a while and some of them are VERY hot girls. I think before I have always come across as the nice guy, who is generally nice looking, generally nice to talk to and generally boring! My friend often seems to do better with the girls with me and I know its all down to his confidence and this time I want to make sure that I actually make an impression on these girls and let them know that I'm not just a boring nice guy.

I guess that I'm asking for advice on how to change someones impression on you already. I want to show these girls that I'm not just a boring nice guy but I have substance. Any advice on how to go about this?

Thanks guys

Honestly, I wouldn't be afraid to venture off to talk to other girls while your out with these girls (not too much of coarse). If you do this, then they see that other girls are interested in you too (which makes you a commodity), and because they think they already know you, this changes their perception of you as well. Don't be afraid to create sexual innuendo and tell light hearted sexual stories (You probably don't want to tell them about how you couldn't get your rocks off from fucking her, so you beat off in that fat chicks face and made her take it in the mouth ). Also, know how to dance?! That helps a lot! And if not, fake it. Basic sense of rhythm should get you by. Good luck to you bro!

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Thanks for the advice man

Its appreciated!

Try cocky/ funny if you always seemed liked the nice guy. They'll see that you've changed for the better a bit. And I'd have to agree Crowd. If you talk to all these different girls and guys and they like you, then your setting an example that your pre-selected. That means your hot girlfriends are going to want you because...well...everyone else does. Be the life of the party and have fun

the cool thing about already being friends with girls and being the kiss ass nice guy is that you can be a lot more brutal and get away with it. it's like all of a sudden they gaze at you in aww.