This kid caught me gaming in my high school and now calls me a faggot over messages and he`s leaving bad comments on my band`s myspace
how do i fucking amog him...

oh by the way, he called everyone in pickup a looser so you can bug him if you want
http://www.myspace.com/romo53_2006

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Fuck amoging him, next time you see him let him have it for running his mouth....especially over the internet of all places.

Amog: faggot

PUA: I'm sorry your dad game out of the closet and told you about our relationship.
PUA: Dont fancy a relationship with me I have got class
PUA: Only because I have a bigger dick doesnt make me a dick sucker.
PUA: Dont be jealous of my big dick or dont be jealous just because I have a bigger dick.

PUA: You really think i am gay !! why dont you ask your gf/mom/sis
PUA: Yeah I'm afraid you found out about me and your dad or I am afraid your dad told you that he proposed to me.

PUA: How many time si Have to tell you and your dad not to hit on me, I am not gay like you guys get off my back.

PUA: I'm not like you soo dont strat hittin on me now.

AMOG: All PUA are loosers

PUA: Your mom would disagree
PUA: Dont be jealous just because you are socially ocward !

what is he 10? "all pickup artists are loosers"? did he spell it wrong when he said it?

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There is nothing wrong with wanting to have a witty comeback, but don't stoop down to his level. If he really feels the need to start shit with you over that (especially over the internet), it seems obvious that he needs work on his inner game - bringing others down just to feel better about yourself is not what I would consider to be a factor in a quality personality.

You said you wanted to AMOG him; one quality in an alpha male is being the leader of men. By acting just like him and resorting to his childish antics, you are allowing him to be the leader of your behavior.

It's not worth your time to "fight" with him, especially over the internet. I would show him that you really don't care what he thinks.

Him: Blah blah blah you're a loser.

You: Listen man, you HAVE to be like the COOLEST guy I have ever met. No, seriously, bro. In fact, if you have free time, I'd love for you to teach me your AWESOME ways since everyone wants to be JUST like you!

or

You: I was JUST about to watch a Disney movie since I had the urge to feel like I was 5 years old again... but then I decided I would just read your comments.

My responses weren't a direct attack on any certain trait of his. They were just general statements that show that instead of his comments bothering me, I am able to just brush them off. Don't let someone at his level tear you down.

If your comments back and forth are public on your myspace/facebook/whatever, just keep your cool. Don't feed his flames. I'm not saying you can't or shouldn't joke around with him in your responses (your call), just remember that if you keep your cool, he is the one who will look like the ass.

First off an AMOG is considered a bad thing. You don't want to become one. But obviously what you meant was "How do i deal with this AMOG?". Check out the thread in the Mid-Game section on how to deal with them.

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AMOG = Alpha Male of Group. Women are attracted to the qualities of an alpha male. You being the AMOG of the group is not a bad thing at all.

AMOG: Faggot

PUA: You might say i AM to good to be true

Keep your frame tight, you're letting this guy get to you. He's egging you on and you're jumping through his hoops. Your best bet is to game two HBs to walk past him, arm-in-arm with you. As you pass him, give a wink

Dude fuck AMOGing him. This could actually be good for your reputation. I'm sure you are aware of social proof. I was listening to Sinn's interview the other day and he said something that hit me. He was saying that some of the women that he had slept with didn't like that he was a PUA so they went around putting up pictures about him saying that he was a PUA. Now he has women coming up to him asking him if he is that PUA and he says, "Oh you shouldn't talk to me I'll just hit on you." Point being don't be afraid of who you are, just be damn good at it.

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You're allowed to ignore him.

I have got to agree with some of the people here. It is not worth the effort and will not work to AMOG him.

Anti-AMOG tactics are used in a social situation when you are competing for the alpha male position with some guy you dont already know. It is thus used for short term gain, to win the battle. It is most useful when you do not know the set, it is a way of brushing aside his attempts to beat you. It is something you use before the roles are set, during the social calibration.


What you are describing here is not an AMOG situation. You are describing a situation where you already know the people and you want to stop him from destroying your reputation.

So what can you do?
The best answer is: Nothing. Why? Because you should do nothing about him, he is a loser, he has an opinion that you do not agree with and he tries to make your life difficult. Does he not have anything else to do?

I would rather think about how to move on from here. What does this situation tell you? You did something wrong while gaming. My guess, you did not feel like an alpha male. I am sure that you did your routines right and that you built attraction and all that, fine. The problem is that when our skills grow we do not always build inner game at the same rate. Our inner game is often a limiting factor, thats why we feel incongruent and thats why people feel that they can safely pick on us.

The best way to solve that problem is to not bother about this situation, if you fight back it shows that you have to fight for your position. If you back off you may be seen as a loser. I see backing off as: Avoiding him, hiding, acting all whiny and weak around him and everyone who might have heard about it. On the other hand, if you do not back off and instead really dont care, you show a higher value. If you treat him as if nothing happened, if you treat everybody else as if you had already forgotten about it, you could win a lot. I dont say ignore him and it will all be fine, that comment would indeed suck. I know that it is not easy to ignore and in your case it would not help because you would do it the wrong way if you were told like this. Instead I want you to ACT as if you were ignoring a child calling you names. ACT!!!! It is not real, you can still feel bad inside, it is ok! But above all, fake it! After a while you will realize that he has stopped.
At that point you will start feeling better. When you start feeling better try to look back at what you did to get where you are. You did not give up your power, you behaved in a way that felt strange to you because your feelings told you that you didnt deserve it. Then you will realize that we have massive amounts of "limiting beliefs" making our lives difficult. You do not only act the way you want to, you are limited by what your beliefs allow you to do.

Hope this helped man!

I agree with one post here.

Ignore him. He is trying to see if you retaliate against him. Doing so will only enforce the rumors he set out against you and the PUAs.

By the way, I hope you have social proof that you are into girls (e.g. dating chicks, etc.) that helps.

Its obvious he is insecure with himself so don't stoop to his level. Remember, you are in control of the situation. By retaliating against him you allow him to control the situation.

Best,

J-Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

I agree with J-Dub

Ignore him. Retaliating will get you nowhere. If he calls you out in public just agree with him and laugh. Tell him why you're a loser.

"You're right. I AM a loser. This whole time I thought I was really cool. Thanks for letting me know. You're such a good guy. We need more people like you in this world to tell the losers what they are so they'll stop losing, and start winning. Maybe you can show ME how to win, so I won't be a loser."

Then call the girl you're talking to a loser. (assuming he'll call you out while you're in conversation with girls.)

Just remember bro, if you don't have a problem with it, nobody else will.

If other people have a problem with you using pickup, its only because they're uncomfortable with themselves. People who are comfortable with who they are don't care about how others perceive them, and they don't judge other people.

This guy obviously has some issues. Don't down him. It will make things worse. If you just brush it off by agreeing with him then you will show you're the bigger man by not escalating the fight, and he'll feel like a chode for stepping up to you. That should stop him. If it doesn't, file a harassment complaint about him. It shouldn't lead to that though.

Don't hate.

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If you replaced all instances of the word PUA with AFC, this post would be perfect