I met a girl at a party about 2 months there she showed up to see a friend

talked to her periodically and one day out of the blue ended up going on a hiking date with her.

didn't really hear from her for a few days so i msg'd her this past saturday
"call me when you get off work lets take a quick flight to russia or something"
-im off now. I'm down
"i'll come over soon my friends are about to leave"
-im not home i'll call you
30 mins later "i'm going out for a bit just lmk"

never heard from her but monday morning she msgs me
"hey buddy lets go do something"
-no response
"wake up
-blah blah ok lets go get lunch im starvign from class

We went out for a quick lunch decent second date i guess nothing special.
So today about 3 days later i messaged her again (reason for msging she works A TON double shifts multiple days a week no idea when to get ahold of her if i call really"

"lets do a movie night sometime this weekend"
-I work til 10 fri and sat
"sunday"
-sunday night?
"as long as you dont keep me up too late I have class at 9"
-I work til 8 so it'd have to be a late movie
"8 isn't bad as long as you dont try to seduce me and keep me awake until 4 am or something crazy" (we have only hugged so far im tryin to get other ideas in her head)
-ok cool (ugh shitty response)e

not real sure how im doin with this hb9. 2 dates and planning a 3rd makes me think theres interest but theres been no opportunity to escalate anything so far and not even sure if im in that zone just yet. I guess i need to rev up the kino on this date or im done i think.

move on! theres a lot of HB9s out there...go and find them!

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♥ BSB ♥

Sounds like a really nice friend xD

You have to ask yourself a simple question. Does she seem interested when she's around you? Smiling a lot, laughs at your jokes, does she ask you about your life?

If she's interested at all, you should be able to get yourself to a point of sexual tension and go for a kiss. If she reciprocates it then you're golden. If not, make sure you have a "No big deal" demeanor about it, keep it light. Smile and say, "Sorry, thought there was a moment there." If she's not into you just yet then stay friends for the time being and find someone else.

Best of luck to you.

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Sincerely,



Jack Sunday

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