ok guys, thing is im going out next week with some girls from work all of whom are pretty hot and the thing is i wanna have a list or certainly some ideas on things i can talk about that will keep them interested. I know people will say be yourself but that kindda seems mundane and id like things i talk about 2 be interesting and fun! Also some ideas on drinking games would be fun?

Well with a group of hot girls I definetly recommend to talk about things that everyone would be able to give their input. Maybe something like favorite nightclubs or something else so you can get a friendly debate going. As for drinking games. As for drinking games, if you're in a house beer pong is a pretty easy game and there's another one that's pretty easy called landmines. You could probably look it up on the internet.

look alpha by pulling everyone to the conversation.

games / drinking games are ideal.

''you never'' is a good one

if i say something but i did do it i need to drink ( take a sip)

like - i never kissed men

i never kissed men so i don't need to drink

but she will.


now i say - i never use a vibrator or dildo

etc i t can be fun

For drinking games just google that stuff.

As for topics to discuss - OK, here's the kicker, no matter how awesome or extensive your list of topics of discussion, it's the actual CONVERSATION that will keep things interesting. That being said, you could talk about ANYTHING you wanted so long as your delivery was excellent.

Here's the thing about Conversationalism - you don't need to say a lot to be a good conversationalist. The key lies in OBSERVATION. You must be observant.

E.g., You're one on one with a girl, and you notice she is wearing some kind of jewelery. Comment on it. Say you like it and ask the story behind it. Relate that to something in your life or even tease her about it to make the conversation fun and lighthearted.

Another example, I met a girl and noticed she had long fingers. I asked her - do you play the piano? Her answer was a resounding Yes! And we had a great time talking about music and compositions etc.

As far as TOPICS to discuss... I usually steer clear of politics, current events, and religious beliefs for the first few interactions (if not all unless THEY bring it up). I bank on storytelling. Unless you're a pretty dull person there MUST be some awesome stories that you've got which you can play up on. It's all in the delivery.

Finally, and I can't stress this enough, ask original, open-ended questions. Keep going until you find something that you can snag on and develop into a proper conversation. Remember that in the beginning the effort is 90%-guy and 10%-girl, or something to that effect. You'll have to bring the energy until they are interested enough to help keep the convo going. Never, ever, ever do the whole interview style "interrogation" where you ask bland, closed-ended questions.

If there is a particular girl you have an eye on, tease her, win her friends approval, and keep the conversation sexually charged, escalating smoothly. This is also a good way of weeding out chics - if you tease the girl and she doesn't reciprocate in kind, or she gets all bitchy, you know she's a lame-ass without a sense of humour, and that you should move on to the next.

Cheers,

Q.

One thing you can do is check out websites like Digg to find some interesting topics to bring up. "Did you hear about..." or "I saw a cool article about..." But the biggest help I've found for this issue is learning to ask open ended questions. Get them talking. "Do you go to school?" "Yes." "What are you going into?"

Remember, you're trying to learn about these girls to see if they're people you deem worthy of sleeping with or starting a relationship with or whatever your goal is with this. Don't be on the ropes, get them talking. Then you can play off of the things they say. When you have a topic that comes to mind bring it up but being the life of the party has more to do with being able to keep people talking.

As for drinking games, try "I Never". If you don't know, I Never is where you all sit in a circle go around each person saying something true like "I never had sex in a car." And everyone who has would then take a drink. This is good because people then get to know each other a little better.

Best of luck.

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In response to the poster above i love DIGG but i find that alot of the stuff on there is either A) really only interesting to guys/nerds B) very hard to explain without showing. so be care full with that.

I like to use fun and interesting facts...like today i found out...that ed oneil that actor who played al bundy, is actually at 15 year black belt in brazzilian jijitzu. Could getting your butt kicked by all bundy, that would be amazing and humiliating all in the same breath.

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I am surprise no one said to have the girls talk about themselves. Because I have found is that typically when you get one hot girl talking about her self the others will do the same. Pretty soon they are going off in tangents on things. The problem with this is that you can very quickly be excluded from the conversation. What I have done to make sure this does not happen is to tease the girls on what ever they said and basically be a complete smart ass. I do add to the conversation when I can or ask a question if possible.

If you are tall, and by tall I mean something like 6'6" and not 6'3", you can do some kino with the girls by comparing hands with them. And depending on how petite they are you can see if your hand covers their face.