Allright.. I never posted a field report before.. this one is about a really hot waitress last saturday.

Saturdaynight I went out with some teammates, sitting on a terrace outside. Ofcours in a good mood, because we are al topsporters and we were happy because we were done training for that day.. All the guys were drinking beer, except for me, because I had an extra training the next morning at 8.30am.

This really cute waitress shows up to write down our order and the guys were smashed by her.. Everybody ordered beer and asked her stupid questions . I never gamed a 'hired gun' so this was the time for me to do something about it. I kept staring her right into her eyes, for a little longer than usual and she kept having eyecontact with me.. that's where it started off.. Ofcours I ordered a water with lemon, but she didn't believe me! I said I'm serious and she came back later with a beer and a water for me.. I gave a hard time about the beer, and told her I had training the next day. Because we had intensive eyecontact, the connection was made.. She kept coming back with beer for the guys and a water with lemon and lot's of ice for me (without charging me). Everytime I went to the bathroom I walked by her and touched her smoothly on her back and ordered another water. Things were going well.. IOI's were all over the place

Later that night my teammate (a good looking alpha guy) sneaked out and quickly payed the bill and asked het for her number.. That sucked, because I was about to move over her to get her number, but it didn't matter, he gave me the number, because he has a girlfriend and he noticed the chemistry between me and her.. When we bounced I took some extra time to get up from the table and she saw that, I grabbed the opportunity to grab her arm and ask her if she went out later that night after work. She answered: "yeah, probably, hit me up later this night.. but.. I gave my number to a friend of you, I actually wanted you to have it (she really said that!!). I showed her the card with her number and said: "this number?". We cracked up and I texted her later that night.. She responded: "come to my work, I have 10minutes off". So I went to her bar and she was upset and emotional because she had a huge fight with her boss.. But that's cool, she showed emotion , good thing right? I dealt with her and instructed her to not fuck things up between her and her boss..

The next day she was working and I saw her on the terrace having lunch on her own.. Because I was getting dinner with some friends I had a good false time constraint, so I walked up to her to fluff a little, acted non needy and not impressed by her beauty. I said: "I have to go back to my friends, they are ordering food already" So I smoothly kissed her on her lips.. that suprised her but It was funny because she just had a potato in her mouth. That was a little awkward so I made fun of her about her lips tasting like potatoes. Then I left. 5minutes later she texted:
"I want another kiss now "
me: "are you done chewing?"
she: "yes, where are you now?
me: "at the icecream place next door, but you have to wait for that kiss, because I have to go do something. (which I didn't but I wanted to push her away)

Later that night we hooked up, and she wanted to go to a bar. I took initiative by saying, "no, we're gonna take a walk". So we went to a park, kissed an talked for 3 hours.

The day after that we hooked up again and she confessed she's dating a professional icehockey player. They were in a fight. I pretty much ignored the conversation. I have this rule for myself of not dating girls with boyfriends, so i withdrawed my interest in her that night. I guess she is missing something in her relationship but when she wants to hook up again (and she will), I will tell her that I don't date girls with a boyfriend. I don't need that because I'm dating two other hot girls at the moment.. Too bad though, because she was so much different than other girls. (I will tell her that too ) Too bad for her she's missing out on me.

I want to make clear to her that I don't make out with girls with boyfriends, but.. I wanna do that in a way that it'll gain attraction. If she wants me, she has to break up with him. I know that attitude only is already alpha and attractive, but I want to smooth'n it out.. And I need some opinion from you guys how you would deal with it.

She is the perfect social proof, and as long as she has a boyfriend, I will use her for that.. I mean.. what's better than having the most beautiful waitress in town attracted to you in public right??

These days helped me big time with:

* how to deal with text messages (I'm reading books about how to text massage girls.. big tip for you guys!!).
* showing alpha behaviour
* again that maintaining strong eye contact is a big part of your overall bodylanguage.
* acting non-needy

peace

How do you feel you built attraction with her? With eye contact and light kino? I mean, I'm a 'master' of eye contact and have really a hard time geting hired guns. Even if I get some banter going I can't seem to be able to '#-close'. I most often get the 'I'm sorry but I don't give customers my number' lines.

The attraction came from a combination of seperating myself from the rest by giving her a playful hard time about the beer she gave me, confident bodylanguage, strong eye contact and big time social proof among my friends. I'm dating several girls, and I behave that way. I don't get swept of my feet, because of a cute waitress.. I guess they can smell who's impressed by her looks and who's not.
But all that was enough attraction for her to give me her number.

The real attraction was a day later in the park. I recognized all the shittest she was giving me. A weird thing was that she totally disqualified herself that night by telling me about all her bad habits. Like saying: "I'm really indifferent and moody". My response: "You won't be to me, or I'll spank you and leave you". I gave her good advice for her job issues.

actually, the best thing was even before the date started! We planned to meet at her work and she was having a conversation with her boss when I entered the restaurant. They were already closed, and they were talking inside about travalling to other countries and taking the risk by just going there and see what happens. When they asked me for my opinion I knew this was gonna be my night. I told them about how I left the national team (sports) to go to Los Angeles on my own for 9 months last year and how I trained there. I told them about how I lived there and how I ended up doing bikerides in the ghetto on my way back from the top of Parlos Verdes after I enjoyed the view on the top of the hill watching the ocean and Catalina Island, telling them how beautiful life was there. I totally impressed her boss and she got to know a side of me that was very adventurous.

So after that when we where alone, I said: "alright... now I wanna kiss you, and I kissed her". As simple as that.. She had a freaking professional icehockey player as boyfriend and she didn't tell me about it.

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Good tips. When I'm giving a waitress a 'playful hard time' about something my friends or whoever usually comes in a does the 'don't be so hard on her it's fine'. Kind of steals the oomph out of that. I guess I have to calibrate it more playfull.