I am new to the community and i was wondering what is the easiest way to open a conversation at my college campus or around the area. I have orientation in a week and was hoping to start testing some openers with the girls there to gain some experience. Basically my question is, how would you confront a girl at campus or in a classroom without using the average "hey hows it going"?

-Garv

well some you can use is asking her

excuse me i'm lost , i'm looking for ......"

Or "hey you look like you know your way around here,can you tell me where..."

as for in the classroom you can ask to borrow stuff like a pen, eraser, ect ect. then make small talk. it also gives you a situation where you can talk with her later when you return the item or if she request for the item back.

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considering im a girl and in college, maybe i can help ya out. usually when i want to talk to a girl, i go up to her and compliment her on what shes wearing. that's kinda my opener. it works most of the time, unless if the girl is bitchy.

try these:

"nice dress"

"cute top"

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I know you are going to laugh but my best way that worked worders at the start of Uni before even stepping in the doors was using Facebook-no shit the Uni network is like a call girl catalogue.

I browsed through the pages, and added/sent messages to all the hot girls or that just about made the mark. Let me just state everyone that is going to University literally knows no one and is as giddy as R Kelly in a high school so everyone is open to talking to people going to the same University not to mention when you ge there you have built a considerably amount of contacts and comfort so no ice breakers should be required.

The killing move though it doesn't matter if you get in the friend zone with them because they will no doubt make hot friends, and in college if you know a friend it means you are cool, and their bitch radar is lowered.

Enjoy Uni!

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

Are you fucking kidding me! Okay okay, if a guy used this line ambles over you, shaking in fear "oh shit a girl what do I say, oh wait I remember reading this post on the <a href="">PUA Forum</a>" and he says "nice dress Bunney09" would you loose your shit over it? I think you would ignore him (unless he looked like Brad Pitt?)

Be honest please!

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

yeah I definitely feel more comfortable with openers like these. I see myself as a confident person but I don't feel there is any way I can go out and compliment random girls on their tops or dresses to start out.

fail.


if you actually want to help, talk about things guys have approached you with that WORKED. Don't use malfunctioning 'girl logic' in an attempt to help people here. you'll just screw people over.

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There are so many men on this forum because women (usually Mothers etc) told us to be nice, treat them like gods, buy flowers and chocolates etc.

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

If they are in close proximity, are looking at you, I never hesitate to ask how they are doing. A simple, "Hey! How are yah?!" does just fine for me. A little smile, some charisma in your voice, and nice posture goes along way in this approach.

Edit:

And I fail! Apparently my favorite approach is frowned upon!

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I guess that is a good way to show confidence and energy. I'll definitely keep that in mind.

uh okay?


i was more talking about the fact that girls like to believe they know everything about relationships despite the fact that they don't even know the first thing about what they're attracted to instinctually.

except of course for zip, cinn, and bon haha

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Dude: When I pick up, I usually open with a NEG. When you approach a girl (This might make you a bit nervous if you haven't done it before) but you put your arm between their elbow and their shoulder, on the outside (if that makes sense). If you dont know what a NEG is, go to google search up NEG PUA. If you really dont know what it is afterwards, just ask some forum guys. Otherwise you can say like "im doing this experiment, blah blah blah and play a game with her (look some up!) hope this helped.

i know what a neg is..

ive got the perfect opener for a guy on campus just check out my past posts and go to "Day Game"

Like im sure that it has been already said, you are a freshmen? so whats important is to not look like one. Don't be the needy guy, but you could perhapes ask for directions to a building.

The best opener on campus though can be found in food area. On all campus i have been a part of, most kids eat lunch and study at the same time.....additionally the seating is usually hard pressed, so its not weird or strange for someone to ask to sit next to you or at your table to eat ( everyone has places to go and things to do so you cant waste time looking for a single table.


This is the perfect way to open girls...ask to sit down, look up after a few min and make a comment about her book...transition and vioalla new friend on campus.

good luck, college is fun!

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