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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:49 am 
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Hey, i'm really new to this and ive been just reading to the topics and was just thinking about some openers in my head.

so lets say i go up to a girl and open up saying
'i need a girl's advice/opinion on something'
wat if she says 'why me? there are plently of other girls around'

wat does one say to that? has this happened to anyone?


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 5:53 pm 
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I don't use opinion openers a whole lot myself, but from what I understand of the theory behind them, you need to phrase it so that you don't really give her a choice.

Instead of:
"Can I get your opinion on something?"

Use:
"Let me get your opinion on something."

or

"I want to get an opinion on something."

Don't ask a yes or no question, because she has the option of saying no. Typically, you also want to open it in a rhetorical manner. You open with the "Let me get your opinion" and then go into the opener before she has a chance to rebuke you.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:46 pm 
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Hey man,

It has been a while since I used canned openers - I now use a more natural type of game, but in answer to your decent question - the thing you need to do is to root the opener and add in a false time constraint.

For example, if you were to use the jealous girlfriend opener, you could mention that you are asking because you just got a phone call from your brother about it or "we were trying to give my friend over there advice."

Or, say you do the spells routine, you could say it's about "my friend Will, who isn't out with us tonight because he's with this girl."


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 7:59 am 
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thanks alot, this has helped :)


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:08 am 
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i feel openers should be purely situational. opinion openers tend to be over played and never fit the moment.


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