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Delicate Calibration – Anyone???
There is a gorgeous girl I have had sex with for few times, who is recently reconciled with her husband. We work together. She decided NOT to have any sexual affairs with me after that but same time remained very flirtious and playful. We’ve exchanged tons of text messages since but none of them lead to a sex. She also mentioned that from time to time she might be a “bad” girl, but so far for the last 3 months no sex happened.
We met few weeks ago at the parking lot, had some kisses and touches, but no sex. She said that she is going to call me to have some sex but not in the car. Two weeks passed – she never called. I played tight game with text messages all this time– but still no luck. I’ve decided to give up on her, went on vacation came back and completely freeze her out for the last three weeks. She WAS seeking my attention, giving me looks, glancing at me, tried to initiate few conversations, tried to impress me with hot new outfits. But I was ignoring and using jelosy tactics being surrounded by other gorgeous girls all the time she is around. I have a feeling she is up to something but afraid/not willing to make a step forward. I know for sure she likes me and seeking my attention. Me freezing her out – most likely going to lead her simply to give up on me.
The question is how to calibrate her and how to approach her and hopefully escalate this to some hot sweaty times?
Your help is appreciated.
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I’ve decided to give up on her
I would recommend you had the right mentality here when the relationship between you too got stale and she probably just enjoyed the attention.
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We met few weeks ago at the parking lot, had some kisses and touches, but no sex. She said that she is going to call me to have some sex but not in the car. Two weeks passed – she never called.
You should have not waited on this, you should have moved on with your life and if she wanted sex she would have to get in line
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I know for sure she likes me and seeking my attention
If your that sure (considering it is hard for us to read the signs from just merely words) then go for it, you have nothing to lose, you either get sex or you are back to where you are now with no sex.
CHAT