Hey guys, I'm new here, been picking up for some years but never got in contact with this kind of pick-up community/philosphy.

Anyways, maybe you can help me.

I got a date with a girl, she's really fine, still young, 17 years (i'm 19) and just asked her to meet again. We got to know like 1 month ago at the lake, was short, no kissing n stuff yet, I'm sure of her interest. Cool thing, we'll chill at the lake, it's fucking hot these days, swim, play some frisbee, classic. But phoning her, she says her friend is probably coming too. It's the one she's been with when I met her. Actually I don't understand her motivation why she would bring her friend with her. I got the feeling she herself is kinda nasty, but... I doubt that friend's into me too or sth, she got a boyfriend. She's hot too, but kinda... simple in the brain, and to me that's kinda unsexy.
Can any expirienced 'Casanova' explain me?

Can be numerous reasons why she choses to bring her friend.

1. She is immature - A grown up woman wouldnt bring her friend with her on a date.
2. She doesnt realize its a date. You havent built enough attraction before that
3. She is too shy to be alone with you, and doesnt have confidence to go out with you alone.
4. She thinks "why the hell not.. " and brings her friend in case things get weird. Or you are a weirdo.

In any case. Treat them like you all three are good friends. And make sure they treat you that way too. Them two talking alone and making you wait somewhere else isnt ideal and make things emberrassing for you. So make sure it doesnt happen if you see its gonna happen, but playfully. Always playfully.

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Mh, actually I only see your reason 1/3 as possible, eventhough I doubt she's unexperienced in such things. I know she's attracted by me, as she showed real obvious interest the first time we met, also, after we fixed she'd call to meet again (as she was busy those weeks) she did about 4 times when I was busy though. And I'm definitely no weirdo.

It won't be too uncomfortable for me to hang with 'em both, however I imagine it's a lot trickier to act the right way to 'get her' when we are three. :/

It's very possible that it's a dating ambush; a dating ambush involves going on a date where you have no reasonable hope of hooking up, or even building good chemistry. At their best, ambushes just waste your time and money. At their worst, an ambush can completely destroy your chemistry with a woman and leave her thinking you’re a tool. While she may believe you guys have great chemistry or feel attracted to you, she isn't completely sure.

So from Overture's points, it's really a combination of 1 and 3, and as a general rule you should NEVER, EVER go on a date where you're being chaperoned because the chaperon will feel like a third wheel and slowly undermine your game inevitably leaving you looking like a tool. If i was you, I'd say that something else came up and bail on the date, and then try to reschedule doing something that you guys can only do alone.

if she was into you, she would want to spend one on one time with you. she's bringing a friend, so if things don't work out so well, she's got a backup to lean on. maybe she's not comfortavle to be around you alone. maybe she just wants to be just friends so she brought a girl to cockblock. if u were thinking about a 3 some, its very unliekly

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This was the best answer but I would just add this point:

5. SHE NEEDS VALIDATION from a friend, her friend is there to support her decision.

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Okay, I had the date and if you're intrested, it was like this:

She admit that she got a boyfriend, asking if she already was when we first met she said yes and BUT she is really 'open' and he lives kinda far away.
Her friend has just become single again and was kinda nasty, stuff like touching muscles, massage and stuff was going and with all of us. Still I was kinda unsure what to do and no interested enough to kiss one of her, it was really strange and I'll see when we meet again. If in 3 I'll prolly do anything to get 'em really nasty. And if 1by1, same.