Very true. One of the girls at this church is a complete party animal, she is always getting drunk and is a great laugh when I see her outside of church. However, when I saw her at the church at that fundraiser she was like a completely different person - very quiet and reserved.

All I'm saying is you can be very surprised when you isolate them or when they let their hair down!

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Just out of interest, anyone tried gaming a Muslim girl? Of course if you're from one of those countries then thats pretty much inevitable.

But seriously anyone tried?

Right, my Ex gf who I am on great terms with, is and was a hardcore christian. Pro Death penalty, anti gay marriage, earth is 6000 years, evoloution is wrong.

I am anti death penalty, pro gay marriage, backing evoloution. I play in a black metal band, and I follow the heavy metal and industrial scene, so blasphemy sexually explicit work is part of me. Along with the fact that I am a comedian and I enjoy slating major religions. I am against the way most religions gain followers and retain followers along with how they attempt to influence society. I see sex as simply as a way to connect with a person on a new level, she had and has more christian attitudes, seeing sex as a symbol of true love and commitment only to be undertaken in marriage.

I was with her for about a year and 3 months, and if at any point I felt our making out was moving to close to inter-course, e.g. oral sex etc I will tell you for a fact that I would of stopped it immediatly, I think her views on sex ARE wrong, but I am not and was not willing to do something that would conflict with her beliefs.

We got on great!

Are their any specefic questions? I'm quite happy to answer them!

Well I'm also involved in underground black/death and metal music but perhaps I'm just too 'close minded' to be able to cope in a relationship with someone of those beliefs. I know Christian girls who I'm friends with but I couldn't be in a relationship with them.

But if it worked for you then thats cool, I'm just stating my own take on things and the reason for my feelings.

As a Christian I have to say that there is little room in most "hardcore" christian girls' opinion about pre-marital sex. I personally don't agree that its sinful, but I also don't believe that the bible is the inspired word of god. Many Christians do.

If you are looking to get laid you can probably get by with temptation through the "partially reformed bad boy" image, but I'd say that if you aren't at least considering sticking with the girl for the long-term, don't do it. There are plenty of hot chicks out there who can sleep with you once without feeling too guilty. Don't prey on the innocent just cause its tempting.

I'd say it's a case by case study as it is with all girls.

The sooner we stop trying to predict how specific girls are going to act the better it will be.

Run game as usual and adjust as needed.

JS