I don't understand this girl. So a week ago one of our girl friends brought this girl, hb7 over to our place. I had met her once before but i was fucking hammered so the first impression wasnt great, lol. Anyways, the second time I met her we started talking and we had alot in common. I used a few PUA lines, but not a whole lot. We kinda did our own thing that night away from everything else because we really just hit it off. We both agreed that we had alot in common and she seemed very interested in me.

She spends the night, we didn't fuck around or anything other than grabbing some boob. She says she had only fucked two other guys in the past. She wasnt even down to make out cause "the anticipation makes it better when it does happen" so she wanted to wait. She seems like a party girl, drinks and shit so this was kinda unexpected.

So next day we chill at the pool all day, and go see the movie The Hangover. It was good, and I drop her off at her place after, again with no making out, only peck kiss (I said she could do better but she declined). She does her own thing for a while and comes over after hitting up another party that night at like 1:30 in the morning. We watch Requiem For A Dream til like 3:30. She spends the night, again boob, peck kiss but no make out. In the morning I say that I deserve a good kiss and she finally gives it to me before she has to leave because she had to move out that day.

Since then, for like 4 days she is real shady towards me. She responds to texts like 3 hours after I send them or doesnt respond at all. (and its not like i was blowing her shit up or anything) On facebook chat I say hey and we start a slow little conversation. She just goes offline without saying by or anything. So at this point I figure that she isnt interested anymore or something. So I decide that im not going to contact her unless she contacts me first. And I thought we were on good terms when she left 5 days ago, so idk what happened since then.

So she texts me today out of the blue and says she is looking forward to saturday (my 21st party that she said she is going to come to) and that shes sorry for being shady over the last few days and that it is only because she just got a new job (sounds like a bullshit excuse to me).

I really just dont understand what she is looking for or what she wants. Any insight on this situation and how should I play it saturday?

Freeze out it does always work. Just punish her for being shady and stuff. If shes into you shell come back trying to make it up, especially since its ur birthday party. You can just live her a short msg or something in regards with the party, like the time when it kicks off or whatever just to make sure shell come over there. Then ignore her for a bit, chatting up some other chicks. She should be trying to get ur attention at that stage, if not just talk to her as if you havent noticed her presence before.

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She has you chasing, flip the script and run a jealousy plotline, she'll be beggin for attention in no time and give it sparingly, attention to women is like sex to us, it is your currency, dont always be texting her and hitting her up on facebook, let her chase you and chase you she will

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yeah.. you sound pretty Desperate.. You don't know her and you're getting oneitis already. She probably figures you guys spent soooo much time together and things were going Great but needed some time doing her thing and you're killing it by chasing her. If she likes you she'll find her way to you.

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I made the mistake of being charming and handsome... I apologize

yeah.. you sound pretty Desperate.. You don't know her and you're getting oneitis already. She probably figures you guys spent soooo much time together and things were going Great but needed some time doing her thing and you're killing it by chasing her. If she likes you she'll find her way to you.

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I made the mistake of being charming and handsome... I apologize

Remember girls are naturals at this....she has you EXACTLY where she wants you....all confused man! You must realize that her actions (eg, being shady) are not based on her direct feelings...she is only doing it to MAKE you chase her...and its working. Scarcity alone creates attraction (its the opposite of needyness which is exactly what kills attraction).

Have patience with freeze outs as mentioned in previous posts here.

I must say i find it interesting how she gives you boob but wouldnt kiss you ha.

I think she likes you though...just dont act like a needy wuss and she'll come running (if not she loses out right! exactly).