Alright, this is the second time a girl has told me this.

I number closed a girl online, and she writes me novel emails. I was like fuck i dont have an hour to write a novel. So she said shes not a phone person and shes kinda shy at first.

The last girl I had like this I did 50/50 text phone conversation. Phone calls were maxed at 30 min. Most were 5 to 10. I always gave myself a false time constraint to make myself sound more important/busy. Anyone else had this issue before????.....I figured 2 in a row is a trend.

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If you want to call her, call her.





end of problem

Dont use false time constraint too often. It starts sounding stupid.

....why are you spending so much time on comfort on the phone?

the n-close is for setting up a day-2, not talking about your feelings

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The first girl Ive been dating for like 4 months, she lives an hour away so I dont have much else to work with.

Girl 2 is a freshy that lives 20 min away. Should be easier, believe me im not scared to call, I have no AA on the phone ever.

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yeah man. i'll chime in and say i've experienced the bullshit 'i'm weird on the phone'/'i'm shy on the phone' routine. i had a string of like 5 of these before i started reading about game. and guess what - most were from online, so in my mind they didn't count as true approaches. also - a friend of mine was seeing this girl for a while and she said shit like 'i hate talking on the phone can you text?'. i won't get into my cases...bottom line is i think it's their way of controlling the situation a little. i ignored these claims of awkwardness, and the next time one of them said to me 'i'm shy on the phone', i said to her 'i'm sure you'll warm up to me soon'

30min phone convo is long tho...