Ok, guys, what I am about to ask/tell might seem weird but I think it is a very good alternative to get over AA in the field. Whenever I am listening to some explanations of pickup artists it sometimes happens that they say something that pumps my state in such a way that if I would be in a bar I would lose my AA and approach. Now, what I was thinking is if I would download such things on my ipod and whenever I get AA before approaching a girl in a club, I would just start listening to this PUA explanation on my ipod; this would give me the necessary boost to approach. I never read anything about this. Instead of having a person next to you boosting your state in order to make you approach, the person is replaced by your ipod. Does anyone know if this technique already exists ? If so, does anyone know a good piece to download on the ipod ? If not, what do you think about this technique for getting over AA ?

1. Does it matter?
2. We dont know what boosts you as you mentioned, youre gonna have to use your own piece
3. Does it matter? If it works for you it works for you

Silly questions!

Bottomline being: Do whatever works for you to get over your AA.

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what ever it takes to get over AA man i still need to find my cure.
ive been talking to girls at busstops and train stations not with a routine but just asking when the bus wil arrive and then sum blablabla....
just to get myself comfortable around girls.

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Dont fear the unkown, Fear the known.

honestly just learn to not think - thats really all it is. i actually disagree with mystery's 3 second rule - i think it should just be instant. if i see an attractive girl i just start walking and do the approach - it trains ur mind to think of shit on the spot

It sounds like this would result in you turning just a generic approach into this massive production with a prewarmup and rehearsal, ultimately just generating more anxiety for yourself.

However, any experience is experience if you examine what you've learned. Consider it your experiment and get back to us.

AA is very much the fear of the unknown. If you use this trick to approach enough, and it works positively for you, you will somewhat demystify the uncertainty associated with approaching, and likewise lessen the fear associated with it.

So in my opinion, it doesn't matter what it is, if it gets you to approach and try something new, it's a good thing.

Silly questions don't exist. Only answers can be silly. What is silly about asking if this technique exists ? If it exists and someone can point me out where I can find the material, than I can use it. Of course, I can use pieces that work for me but if the technique exists and many people have worked on it, than I can assure you that there are better pieces available than the one I am using (or else psychology and psychologists would have no use in society).

You just help nobody with that attitude of yours. If you think the questions are silly, than why the hell did you even bother to reply on them ? AA is a serious topic and many many men have problem with it. I read that 80 % of the men have AA. I am not only posting this for myself. I didn't hear/read anything about the technique I proposed and I think it could be very useful, especially for people with strong AA.

I just told you that this method that you are using to get over the AA, is legit, acceptable and nothing wrong with it. I wasnt trying to insult you.

The reason i said silly questions is because they answer themselves. You dont need us to answer these questions for you, you know the answers to them! I was also indicating that you should be more "your own man". I mean, who cares what we THINK of the method you are using to get over your AA? It doesnt really matter, as long as you get over your AA. And if it doesnt work to get over your AA, you go try the next thing.

Its as if we are going to tell you *serious face* "Oh, nono, dont use that method, we know that it doesnt work for you, because we know you better than you!".

See where im going?

Ask questions when you NEED an opinion or when it really matters.

Have a good day sir.

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Whatever. Have a nice day too.

For those guys interested, I did some research and came up with an audio tape using NLP techniques in order to get over AA. The tape is 35 minutes. According to the creators it generates brain waves with different frequencies at both ears. This should have an effect on your neurological program and make you more calm or something. Besides that it makes you think back at times where you were completely confident. By thinking back to that confident state it tries to generate that same feeling of super confidence. The purpose, according to me, is to learn how to recall that state whenever you go out. It is worth a try. You should listen to the tape several times (not necessarily on the same day). The name of the audio is approaching confidence. I hope this tape helps some people out there.