This chick that i was working with today(HB8)was giving me alot of IOI. She seemed very confortable with all shift. I was negging her, made her laff. It all seem good until see me this" Would you ever fuck a stripper?"


Without thinking i said yes. After that i saw everthing fall apart. It was a major turnoff for her. I tried to recover but her input on strippers is very low.I should have keep it cool and lie my ass off?

Sucks man. You got hit with a Shit Test. Which I'd argue is an IOI in itself.
20/20 has perfect vision, but....
"It would depend on what kinda person she is OUT OF her work. I'm sure she has her reasons for doing what she does and is in a very bad situation." (DHV by demonstrating being non-judgemental and accepting)

OK Please explain in some more detail please. I am still pretty new to this shit? Even when she was on the phone with her friend, she ask me to call to he ( i figured she was tring to get some pre approval)But good news is that i feel my game improving more and more? I figure in 6 months i will be making less mistakes.

sorry to hear about your story. Saying to her she is shallow for not accepting everyone is a good way to reestablish HV. Even if she has a huge problem with strippers try and make her feel bad for looking down on you for saying that.

Well Shameless you have got to look behind the real meaning of what a girl says she asked "Would you ever fuck a stripper?"

Bit of info:
You might not know this be most girls that lead normal lives find Strippers disgusting they rank right in down there with Porn Stars. To them they're sluts and not seen as too intelligent.

You responded with an immediate YES!! you told the truth which is the right thing to do. However you shouldn't have immediately said YES. You should have said something more so like this:

Girl: Would you ever fuck a stripper?
You: "You say stripper is a if its some derogatory thing a person's occupation doesn't define who that person really is. (then you continue....
Let's say u take two 20yr old girls one of them has never had to work a day in her life everything was given to her she's ungreatful. The other one have to raise 2 younger siblings by herself worked 3 jobs to pay for school hardworker. So you tell me who's the real women of the 2?(don't even give her time to answer the question) go on and say: Yes i would fuck a real women be her occupation stripper, nun, or dairy farmer.

She'll be dumbfounded by that response.
So lesson learned think before you speak And.as far as getting out of this situation. You already said yes without cause No Good

SouthernCross boy I swear you are like a pill of X too me
You have a certain Bad Boy attitude about u. Do what U Do!!
Great!! Great!! response it really got my emotions going no normal guys would ever say such a thing


Well Shameless SouthernCross's response pretty much hits it on the money don't be so eager to answer questions. You could have very well reframed it on her and asked her the same question and not answer her.

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So u think you can handle this?

SouthernCross your a genius my friend. thanks

Shameless glad to help. You'll get better at this game simply by talking to women and paying attention to what they say.