hey guys, new here! First, site looks awesome, so much info from just browsing, keep it up!

Now my issue...basically put..I want this girl to want me more. Dont get me wrong..i know that she is fairly fond of me..and i know she will soon miss me if I don't make contact.

What is the best method to go about this? Here are a few thoughts off the top of my head.

1) I should engage in more social activity. Im a fairly social guy, but i think if i show her that i engage in conversation with other people..OTHER than her..she may think i have a good life? For instance, instead of having my facebook page convered in her wall posts etc..i should start talking to others, showing her that she isn't the only person i talk to? (I think she knows i do ahve a life lol, but if i show her that i can have a life without her..it'l make her think?)

2) Do not call/text her, and do not go on msn as much (because she always talks to me straight away on there). We do call each other every now and then, but i think if I begin to fade away from her..yet at the same time showing that im talking to other people..she will start to feel somewhat left out..hence she will come to mee?

Those are my two methods for now. Yet my question is...when she finally makes contact with me..how do I act? Should the talk between us be LESS indepth and more small talk? i'd love to hear your views on this. give us some methods to try out .

cheers guys.

wth, where did you get these ideas from? Why are you freezing her out, what did she do to deserve that? Why are you hitting on other chicks in front of her?

Be a man. Grab your balls. Go Direct. "Hey Love, I think your really cute, I wanna get to know you more, Hookah Tomorrow?"

Lead and Escalate. None of this Indirect BL and Indirect Verbals shit, She already likes you because she's talking to you. Its now your job as a man to LEAD her and ESCALATE.

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You're forcing it. You are thinking too much about her.

Don't think about the details too much. If you want to make the move, then make the move because by thinking about it too much, you are in fact ruining your own game.

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Woah chill out buddy, I appreciate advice all the time etc but it seems as though uv got your own balls wrapped up in this site..relax. especially for a new 1 like me, Im not trying to play some shitty sympathy card here, but ur not gona get members like me coming back repeatedly if ur just gona lay into me like that. So advice from a new member, lower the tone and u'll get a better response from me next time.

Good job your on the right track, everything youve said in the start of your message is what you need to do. You even said that you know if you didnt make contact she would soon miss you. Thats how you make someone want something you make it scarce, not calling/texting her as much, and you make it more attractive, you creating more of a social life. Now when you call her the next time after youve given her time to believe your not as into her as you used to be (not calling or texting her) and shes also seen that you are having more of a social life (from people talking to you on face book) talk to her about what shes been up to talk about the parties/clubs/social events youve been to for a few minutes and then tell her what your going to do tonight and that you havnt seen her in a while so she should tag along. I like this approach because you dont really have anything to lose. If she says No oh well, you werent going out of your way to try and get her to come you were just saying how you hadnt seen her and you think she would have fun at this thing your going to (so its really her loss), besides hopefully your going to have a good time weather she comes or not. And if she does come it gives her a chance to see that youve upped your social life first hand.

no, actually weneedhelp and Alpha Destiny are the ones on the right path. You are starting out this game so it is fine to wonder what tactics to use and what not to do etc. But after a while you get to a point were you understand that this is just temporarily and not the real reasons why you are able to attract girls.

The best thing you can do is to make the move, always. Women expect you to do it, and trying to force her into doing it is not the best possible option. Be a man.

- Exerio