So as Alias already posted, me and him are roommates and chill alot together so most of our posts are gonna involve the both of us. So we went down town for his birthday to club it up and sarge a bit. We both had pretty good success despite the countless attempts to get AMOG'd all night, but there were these two girls that we had both targeted the whole night who just could not be cracked. We seen them at two different bars. The first I approached with a classic opener that I've used for years, even before reading into all this, "Do you ladies dance with anyone or just each other?" When you ask it be confident, big smile, and talk to the whole group of girls not just one. It works about 90% of the times i use it. I get shot down by her saying that she was with her girls now, but i stayed in and conversated for a min., cuz that's how long i told her i had before catching up with my friends. So then we seen them at the next bar across the road where Alias's target walked past him and pinched his ass. So he approaches and gets shot down also. We just left it alone cuz we didn't want it to hender our whole night, but ended up thinking about it later on after the club. I mean i got 3 numbers and a kiss close lastnight so it wasn't a bad night at all. Any suggestions on this situation would be greatly appreciated.

You need to tell how you got shut down before we can give you any ideas.
(And btw, that a girl doesn't want to dance is not a shut-down unless you want it to be.)

- Exerio

Well not sure what happened when Alias approached but even when we both approached they were cold and didn't respond to any solid game thrown. There was no negging these girls as i can assume cuz that's my friends style, and there was no woooooing them with routines cuz they kept things short and focused on each other to block us out. Atleast that's how i took it.

As far as I can tell it seems like either they were angry from before-hand or you had bad body-language. Perhaps a bit nervous or so?

You can't win every set though, unfortunately. Some just doesn't like opening up:)

- Exerio

Well I really dont get nervous any more... however my body language my have been the issue but I honestly dont remember. When I went after my target after she pinched my ass I thought I was golden. Maybe that was my problem. Perhaps I got to comfotable. Yes I realize however that not all sets are able to be closed.... however I dont like the fact that I was unable to get them.

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Thanks, Alias.