There was a girl ( HB 9.5) who I had about 10 mutual friends with. Not friends but people I know.
I opened with:

hey, u showed up on my friends list...but your the girl who works at ____ , and you wrapped the wrong items for my friends bday gift...if it's you i'll try my best to get you fired



SHE RESPONDS WITH:

"no sorry its not me
i don't work there"



I am usually okay, but that opener seemed to be okay..BUT WHAT DO I RESPOND WITH...PLEASE GUYS THIS IS IMPORTANT

I can't really understand why you opened with that, you see it's hard for people to get the joke aspect of things on the internet. If you had added "lol" at the end it might have gone through.

You are gonna have to send another opener, start afresh so to speak.

respond with...NOTHING.. just look for another girl dude, never do that again..picking up girls on fb is super hard cuz of all the creeps out there

MAN!! what the hell is going in your mind lol!! You knew she would answer that... Now , you're out.

You know , I don't agree with the last post , " it's so hard to close on facebook, so don't try it again , etc etc , try easier things".That's like saying , ooohh approaching girls is too hard , I'm going to wait . Now that you're out , nothing to lose , try to be direct man.

I opened two girls on facebook , I saw their pictures , while looking for some friends' pictures. Then , what I did , was : I was direct , yeah , You're not there to hide something man , on the street , a girl could understand , but , on facebook , stupid , it's not a confident way. Do not try to justify yourself. Well I'm not gonna tell you the all thing , and what I did , 'cause I thought about it too much , and it was perfect , and you have no value to me , I mean , my wing should know, not you. So I'm going to explain, what you should do. Be direct , and challenge her , you need to show her , that , even if you're opening on facebook , you're the one. You need , to make her try to convince you that she is good for you, that she could be your girlfriend. She will always answer the challenge, if it is done and written , pretty well.Do not disqualify her , that would be stupid , you're sending her a mail , cause you want her. Do what I told you , even send me a mail to ask me if your opening mess is good or not , and I'll answer.

Your life is now

AND please , never put a and everything else. just geek needy and nice men , do that on mess and mail ....

Great advice

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"I'm like a dog chasing a car; if I ever caught it I don't think I'd know what to do with it" - Heath Ledger as The Joker

Thanks!!

thats really good but how would you open in a way like that? How could u make it seem like she should be ur girlfriend and how do u challenge her? i cant think of any way

Point something that you think she hasn't, that all guys think she hasn't , and that she truly thinks she has. She will answer, I cannot say anymore, sorry.

that makes no sense, something she hasent and that all guys think she hasnt..would make sense if you point something that she hasnt but all guys think she has

that makes sense, if it is a really important thing, and if you need that thing to be really interested in her , then , she will want to prove you , that you're wrong.

Ok , I see that It's hard for you to understand , so I'm going to write something on it explaining the all thing.

and by the way , I said " something you think she hasn't " , and I never said " something she hasn't", that's what you said, so, I agree ,in this way , that makes no sense at all. But , with what I said , it makes sense

dud i need to agree with the other guys that is not a good way to open, but difference from the other guys i think u still have a shot i u play it raight.

(remeber: where ther's a problem ther's a opertunety)

So what I think u should do is to writeto her: Well no matther what u are working with just quit your job and follow me around, lafing at my jokes and look as god as you do on that picture and i will dobel your salery. lol!

then she will answer with haha or somthing like that. When she does this you answer with: I am going out with some friendes to a new club on Saturday. U should defently come along and try out your new job.

make like a pregnant teen and abort. Facebook is never a place to pick up girls