Ok so anyways i met up with this chick at a party me and my friends threw two weeks ago and i managed to make out with her and finger her but i couldnt f-close cause we ran out of rooms, but anyways her boyfriend picks her up from the party and i basically havent talked to her since her bf is a total douche(not in a cool way either) but is apparently real attached even though theyve only been together for 3 months and every time i see her its just straight awkward should i try to re open her if she walks by or should i lay low till i might be able to get something a little more natural[/b]

Textbook probably says you blown your chances with this girl.
You got her hot at the party, and now she's having buyers remorse, feelings of guilt towards her boyfriend. And most likely means your window is closed.

If you havent built any comfort with this girl, she wount trust you and might be afraid you will go around telling people, therefore she keeps her self away from you. And when you do meet her, of course its an akward moment for her.
She's the slut in this situtation, and you havent technicly done anything wrong.

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Indeed, buyer's remorse applies here.

hot chick with bf makes out and get fingered by strange guy one night, next day she comes back to reality and realized she loves her douchebag BF so she avoids strange guy....

pretty much

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Definitely buyer's remorse here. I don't even think I needed to post that again, but I also wanted to add something. People like to go out and party and socialize. She did just that. She was caught in the moment and just did what she wanted without thinking about the consequences - guilt in this case. Maybe it's not that you didn't attracted her, it's just that her current circumstances and morals won't allow her to pursuit anything with you.

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Agreed, grab a new target or if u number closed her ping her once a month or something

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