So I went to a party the other night and this was the first time that I used my knowledge of the game in a live setting. I number closed on HB6 and I took her to the beach today. Now my problem lies with she has shown me more that enough IOIs to let me know shes interested but I feel like what is going to happen is she will want a relationship. If this was happening at the begining of the summer I wouldnt mind but next month I start my second year of college with my new knowledge and confidence. Im starting to like this girl. So the point of this I guess is I want to have sex with her without the relationship so I can try new stuff during college but also don't want to accidently hurt her.

have fun trying. i found myself in that exact situation tonight.

I've got a similar situation. The way I got to manage this is that you really have to kick your feelings in the ass. If your getting into picking up, you kinda have to numb your feeling if you don't want to fall for her. I mean it's awesome if you do like her and you guys have something, but you have to decide.

Considering you want to F close and try out your new "powers" you gotta tell her what's up. Say that you don't want a relationship now, but you do like her. Manage her expectations and try to word it in a way where you will see her a couple times when you visit or whatever. Let her know that when you see her again, that you'll want to see her but also let her know that your not hooked on her.

Thanks guys. I guess Ill just have to see where things go.

Exactly.. You have to tell her that you don't want a relationship.

But I don't really get it.. You numberclosed her.. Have you kissed her yet?

just have sex with her then when she asks about a relationship tell her your not interested in one right now, then see what happens. If you never do what you want to, its impossible to find out if it was a good or bad decision. Who knows mabey she will be perfectly fine with it. Mabey she will be crying and leaving you voice mails for months. But if your planning on becoming really successfull with wemon your probably going to hurt someone sooner or later so you might as well get used to it early on.

Thanks guys I'm just going to tell her im not interested in the dating thing.

Yea its a fear of mine also. Meeting a girl and seriously falling for her. I went through a divorce and I know this stuff now, and want to practice it for a LONG TIME. It has opened me up a lot, and changed how i see the world, me, and ppl in general. I dont want to settle, but then again I am a sensative guy.