This may be kind of long but I will try to sum it up as much as possible.

Background:

My ex and I began dating this summer after months of NC and me not being an AFC and changing alot of aspects of my game. I became friends with alot of her friends, almost never initiated first contact, and did alot of push/pull. It has worked tremedously. As my ex is constantly texting/calling me, and wanting to hang out.

Side Note:

Over time my ex became good friends with this girl she thought I was dating at the beginning of the summer. This does not bother me as me and this girl are just friends. But my ex hates when we hang out, or are even at the same parties or whatever. She sometimes gets upset but we have talked about it and usually it does not turn into a big thing.

Fast Forward to the last two weeks or so:

We were out at dinner and we got on the topic of "us". I finally asked what her thoughts were on us and me going back to school. She told me she wanted to continue what we were presently doing, and see how things went while I was away. I was okay with that, as I was basically wanting to know if we were keeping our exclusiveness while I was away, or what?

Problem 1:

I went to a party that one of my ex's friends invited me to. I had not talked to my ex all week because she was on a cruise but getting back that day. I assumed she would be there and didn't see it as a problem. Well she did and was not happy I was at her friends party without her. I could tell this I brought her outside to talk, but my ex hates talks about "us" and it didn't get me anywhere. I was happy to see her but she was just pissed I was at "her friends" party and just kept accusing me of this and that and only coming to check up on her. She finally just walked away from me. Well like and AFC I spent most of the night following her around trying to fix this and she was eating it up but acted really annoyed.

^This was something I used to do everytime she was upset, I would keep asking "whats wrong" or try to fix everything, even if she was the one being the bitch or causing the problem.

Problem 2:

The other night I went out to a bar with a bunch of MY friends. Well the group I was with ended up going back to a party that my ex was at. My ex was pissed and told me not to come. I told her I was here with my friends, not her, and to ignore me if she was that upset. She again thought I was checking up on her. Well at the end of the night when people were going to bed I tried to follow my ex up and she freaked on me in front of some people there and it turned into an embarrasing argument. I ended up leaving.

Well Like an AFC, I called her the next day because I had not heard from her all day. She didn't answer so I sent her a text and tried to apologize (for what I have no idea). She sent me a text back that said "You haven't changed a bit. Leave me alone."

That was 2 days ago. I have not heard from her since. I have never accused her of anything since we started dating again, and she has never given me a reason to because she always texts me at night. Right before the cruise we hooked up like normal and things seemed fine. All of a sudden she just freaked on me about hanging out with her friends and checking up on her? We were supposed to hang out today but she totally blew me off.

The thing is, I have become really attached to this girl again, as things were going great up until the last two weeks. I am supposed to leave for school in a little over a week and am not sure what to do. My AFCness is kicking in again and I have been worrying what she has been doing the last two days, and wanting to contact her. I know I should wait and let her contact me, but what happens if she doesn't say anything to me before I leave for school? I feel like if this doesn't get resolved before I leave, then it isn't going to be fixed because I will be gone.

Sorry for the long post but any thoughts or help is appreciated!

I got one thing out of that post. She is your...

EX.

Who gives a fuck what she thinks, enjoy your time at the parties with or without her there.

Unless, of course, she was your girlfriend then and is your ex now. But either way, she sounds like a bitch that need some straigtening.

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Your main problem is you were pushing for exclusiveness when it sounds like thats never really what she had in mind. I'm a firm believer in that a girl should always push for it and not the guy. I don't even believe in being exclusive with one girl but thats a whole diffferent topic. What it sounds like is she wanted more of a FB relationship and I believe that woulda worked out a lot better if you would of taken that route.

Secondly, stop being needy and acting like a bitch. Going to the same parties as her are fine but when she disrepects you don't go around following her apologizing. Ignoring her and acting like it doesn't phase you is a much better option.

Finally, don't call text or have any forms of contact with her before you leave to go to school. By cutting off contact she'll have no control over you and if she feels anything for you she will contact you. My advice, though, is to leave this girl and start picking up new girls at school.

Secondly, stop being needy and acting like a bitch

I could not of said it better myself. Your head is so far up her a$$, you could probably taste whatever she eats. My apologies if that was a bit graphic, but I think you get the point.

The only problem I see in this situation is YOU. Get rid of this neediness quickly or it will haunt you in ANY relationship you enter.

There is nothing to resolve here. Move you, anything else that comes out of your mouth will probably make things even worse. Purchase some PUA material (if you haven't already) and learn how to get rid of your desperation bro. Good Luck

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