I was minding my bisuness. A cute waitress was waiting on me and my buddies. I ignored her flirts, told her things would never work out with us.... all the usual things. I negged her quite well and did a good job. I reiceved the IOI's of: She would touch me on the shoulder, back ect., Was asking more personal questions reguarding me and was laughing after all my jokes. My buddie mentioned he saw a hickie on her neck which she dismissed as being from her ex- of 3 days. After we stopped ordering drinks, she seemed to go cold, but the bar got a lot busier by then compared to when we walked in. Even though I felt the cold I went for the number close and she told me she was not ready. Now, she could have been telling the truth, or she was working a tip or she was not interested. My bro says to number close at the top of her emotional high with you. Not at the low, right before you leave, which is what I did. I need tried and true advise from experienced pua's out there. Help a bro out! What went wrong if anything?

waitresses can be tricky. What kind of bar was it? a club? college bar/ sports bar? What I have found is that being a regular can help. Not to the point of AFC shit but let her know who you are. Go in in when its slow. leave when it gets busy. Or bring in a ton of other when durring one of her shifts. it will improve social status and DHV. Then once you have gotten the IOIs you need tell her you want to take her out, not to a bar. she will need to assocaite you with something other than drinking.

i have found that this has worked in the past for me. also as a bartender i have seen it happen a ton.

hope that helps.

mick

Bring a girl with you to the restaurant next time. Play a jealousy game and watch the sparks fly. Good luck

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