Ok, so at this current moment i'm gaming on msn messenger. It's a bit weird how you have to wait for responses n that not replying at the same time distance as she does. its the same bird i was writing about in my post..."i screwed up...wat would you do?"

Calvin says:
are you shy?
HB says:
huh? why u ask?
Calvin says:
cos i've been on msn for ages now and you haven't said hi
HB says:
oh sorry, i never look at my contacts list
HB says:
how are u?>
Calvin says:
rubbish, wats the point of going on msn then? i is WIKID.
HB says:
lol wont happen again sir.
Calvin says:
damn well better not sausage
HB says:

Calvin says:
anyways, wat do you think of bungee jumping?
HB says:
bad idea
Calvin says:
scared of heights?
HB says:
yup
Calvin says:
aww darlin, well neways, i've been invited down to the isle of weight to do some bungee jumping with a couple of girls in ryde, but i was thinking do you recon it'll be worth the long journey?
HB says:
yeah, be an amazing experience!
HB says:
if u like that stuff why not
Calvin says:
yea sounds wikid. wats the most scary thing you've ever done?
HB says:
pfff... probably tryin to split up a drunken fight
Calvin says:
to guys being gay?
HB says:
no... a girl threatening to knife a guys mum.. so i decided to calm the girl down.. but it just ended up me being threatened to be knifed.. with a knife in her hand
Calvin says:
ahh so that's why your hair is cut weirdly!
Calvin says:
lol
HB says:

Calvin says:
god, you love the gay yellow faces dont you
HB says:
their awsome
Calvin says:
your one of THOSE
HB says:
alright calvin
Calvin says:
yea i'm good thanks you?
HB says:
lol
Calvin says:
have you ever played the cube?
HB says:
wats the cube
Calvin says:
ok, well do you have an imagination?
HB says:
i guess so
Calvin says:
well that's a bit boring
Calvin says:
anyway, it's like a personality test, you describe something and it tells me all abou t you
Calvin says:
whether or not i want to get to know you more or not.
HB says:
hokay then, sounds interesting
Calvin says:
alright, i want you to picture a horizon
Calvin says:
nice beautiful horizon. it's got nothing in the picture
Calvin says:
you got that?
HB says:
yup
Calvin says:
ok good, now picture a cube
Calvin says:
in the horizon
Calvin says:
is the cube transparent or opaque?
HB says:
transparent
Calvin says:
sweet, does it have a colour?
HB says:
the horizon is reflected off each side of the cube...
Calvin says:
hmm interesting, haven't heard that before. ok, good, next, picture a ladder with the cube and the horizon
Calvin says:
where is it?
HB says:
the cube?
Calvin says:
the ladder
HB says:
half way between me and the horizon
Calvin says:
is it resting on the cube? or somewhere else
HB says:
umm well the cube is resting on the ladder
Calvin says:
ok cool, nearly there, now i want you to picture a horse with all of those things
Calvin says:
where is it?
HB says:
the horse?
Calvin says:
yes
HB says:
erm behind the ladder
Calvin says:
ok cool. i gtg. i can't talk to you any more
HB says:
waT?
Calvin says:
well you're just gonna be too much to deal with
HB says:
why explain to me??
Calvin says:
haha, alright, but this will cost you
Calvin says:
you owe me a drink, deal?
HB says:
sure, u goin to Fred’ss?
Calvin says:
yea, but that'll be free won't it?
HB says:
oh for u too.. ok guess another time then
HB says:
ok tell me !!
Calvin says:
alright, well the cube represents yourself
Calvin says:
people can see through you, and as it has no colour, you don't do that many exciting things.
Calvin says:
the ladder represents your friends, and you feel sometimes your friends support you
Calvin says:
although maybe you feel that you are above your friends, that you can see further then they can
Calvin says:
as for the horse, that represents a man close to you at the moment, you said he's behind the ladder, which means you place your friends before him at the moment
HB says:
wow, im such a horrible person
Calvin says:
horrible? but your always smiling
Calvin says:
unless it's an evil sinister smile MUHAHHAHAHAHA <---- like that.
HB says:
lol! i have nothing to be evil about really... but i hope those things arent true cos im really not like that
Calvin says:
no? then sum up yourself in 5 words
Calvin says:
no? then sum up yourself in 5 words
HB says:
caring trusting fun truthful ...... and an extra fun
Calvin says:
sounds like the names of a multi pack of condoms lol
HB says:
may as well
HB says:
wat bout u
Calvin says:
ribbed, extra thin, exta safe, performance and flavoured
Calvin says:
lol, but seriously?
HB says:
yes please
Calvin says:
ribbed, extra thin, exta safe, performance and flavoured
Calvin says:
lol ok, now seriously....unique, fun, caring, adverturous, funny.
aura says:
awsome
HB says:
u sound like a nice guy
Calvin says:
are you flirting with me?
HB says:
lol! im not quite sure how thats flirty
Calvin says:
aww don't worry, it's your emotions overtaking your logic.
HB says:
totally
Calvin says:
glad you agree. Anyway…

it got to here....then i sort of lost it. anyways, would appreciate all comments!

just to show you the rest.....

Calvin says:
glad you agree. anyway, when do you go back? (To college)
HB says:
thursday
HB says:
u wendsay?
Calvin says:
yea, judgement day lol
Calvin says:
did you win at netball today? (She had told me she has a hockey match)
HB says:
fun fun
HB says:
meh no idea, dont play it
Calvin says:
thought you said you had a match...hope your not lying to me
HB says:
oh no hockey
Calvin says:
hokey 'ey...hokey cokey
HB says:
but i dint have it in the end, got it Calvinorrow and wed
Calvin says:
so you were lying to me. i dont appreciate it
HB says:
i said maybeee
Calvin says:
when a girl says maybe, that always means no.
HB says:
not all the time, otehrwise i would just say no..
Calvin says:
you know, if i wasn't gay you'd so be mine.
HB says:
pff well i guess ul never find out then
Calvin says:
your loss. unluckaaaay
aura says:
plenty more fish in the sea
Calvin says:
none as big n tasty as this one though
Calvin says:
speaking of which, you ever been scuba diving? (I deviated here as I knew more shit tests would come)
HB says:
no, i really want to though , it looks soo cool
Calvin says:
yea its wikid, i've now speant 14 hours of my life underwater lol
HB says:
wow.. ive probabbly beaten that in a swimming pool but it doesnt beat the big blue
Calvin says:
bet i could kick your arse holding your breath under water
aura says:
we'll see about that
Calvin says:
will we now. always trying to get me wet aren't you (this was followed by a big pause so don’t use this line!)
aura says:
suree
Calvin says:
do you go swimming a lot? (I already know she does)
HB says:
i used to swim every day
Calvin says:
but now...?
HB says:
not anymore
HB says:
gave it up
Calvin says:
got lazy?
HB says:
no ill
Calvin says:
ahhh so you got fat. that's a real shame cos you're not gonna be able to get underwater for our challenge
Calvin says:
lol
HB says:
hey i can slim down, give me a couple days maybe
Calvin says:
well alright, you're on.
aura says:
awsome
HB says:
i gna go now
HB says:
ciao x x x
Calvin says:
adios xxx

i'm planning on calling her tomorrow evening, start the phone game. wat you think?

U did the cube over MSN.... Oh dear!

7% of communication is through words I prefer not to game online, perhaps this should be moved to online sargin forum...?

Hahahaha, I have never seen an online cube! Bravo...

You should have told her you were leaving after the condom comments.

"Alright, I am bored and leaving to go find something more interesting to do. How about we continue this conversation in real life sometime? Like Friday?"
"I don't know... blah blah blah"
"Great, I will pick you up at 7."
"Haha, are you serious?"
"Yes, I will put on my special pimpin' cologne and see you then. Don't miss me too much. See you in a few days."
"Bye bye"

That is what should have happened. Try it next time. She doesn't sound lost yet, so try it again if you get the chance.

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this should of been posted in online sarging forum

Never chat with a girl for more than 20 min If you plan to be online longer.. block her Makes you seem like you have more of a life, even if you at the moment doesn't

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"Some rules can be bent, others, can be broken" - Morpheus

Meh, 20 minutes is debatable. I think you should talk until you know you hold the power, then leave. There is no set time for talking with a girl. If you are on a roll with your routines and talking, then keep going. The second you feel a decline or a slowing in the conversation, leave it and DHV on your way out.

Never limit yourself by setting a time. Some might take longer to crack, others shorter. Just be aware of everything.

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Of course Leaving a girl when you're on your way up in value is just idiotic . My point was to always leave at a time when she'll miss you so badly if you leave, she drags her refridgerator into the bathroom and sits on the toilet with her computer in her knee, just so that she can write to you 0.002 seconds after you log in the next time

Should have put it all in some other words

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"Some rules can be bent, others, can be broken" - Morpheus

actually love this dude. will defs try this next time. Yea online cube was just an experiment...didn't know there was online section here lol.