There is NO rejection. Its just the way you view it. If you view it in a positive learning experience you will GROW psychologically. Men who are AFRAID of rejection lack boldness and a spirit of adventure BOTH that ATTRACT woman.
What is your definition of sucess? I want you to think that one over GOOD. Well to certain people sucess is reaching a goal,being happy, and being fullfilled. Well let me tell you the SECRET.
THE SECRET OF SUCESS IS THE ABILITY TO NEVER QUIT AND INTERNALIZE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS AS PERSONAL BLOWS BUT AS LEARNINGS.
Remember; You CANT be SUCCESFUL with women or on life unless... you are willing to go through SEVERAL REJECTIONS.
Put this in your fucking heads; REJECTION BRINGS YOU CLOSER TO YOUR NEXT SUCESS. REJECTION IS THE BUILDING BLOCK THE STEPPING STONE TO A HIGHER PLACE.
Now im gonna want you to do an exercise to help you out here with rejection...
** Go out to a venue where there are a TON of woman. BEAUTIFUL,STUNNING,GORGEOUS women. Can be a mall,coffee shop, anywhere you can think of. **
Step 1. Look at the woman you want and are interested in and see the negative thoughts going through your head. SLOW them down and either remember them somehow or write them down say in your phone or on a pad of paper.
!$#% MOST GUYS THINK WHAT IS GOING ON IN THEIR HEAD IS A REALITY. THAT IS ABSURD. THE ODDS OF THINKING WHAT SHE IS THINKING IS 1 BILLION TO 1.!$#%
After step 1 take a 15 minute break and clear your mind
Step 2. Do the same thing as step one however, this time you create a whole other thought reality entirely different from what you thought before.
EX; Lets say your first thought you were thinking was here rejecting you. Now stop and ask yourself; How do I know that for sure? Its not really based on reality so what else could it be? Maybe you could think that she does like you, maybe she was thinking that you wouldnt like her, maybe it could be that she is deaf and couldnt talk back. THESE ARENT BASED ON YOUR REALITY THEY ARE JUST BASED ON YOUR MIND READING THE SITUATION.
Now after each girl write down what your first thoughts were and then write down what your second choice was and clear your mind.
step 3. Do the same thing as you did before. Notice your first thought,2nd thought, then create another scenario in your head that also could be true. However, that is totally wild crazy and so far fetched that the chances of that happening are a billion to 1.
EX; 1.She wont like me 2. She might like my shirt 3. You see her eyes bulge out of her head as you see her ripping her shirt off her clothes and starts chasing you around saying that you are the hottest piece of ass she has ever seen and that she wants to marry you.
Just like in the AXE commercials ;]
*$ By doing this your mind will slowly stop believing your negative thoughts and will build inflexibility*$
P.S. I suggest you get Hypnoticas collection of confidence series if you liked this
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