So I met her last year in a high school, her locker is beside mine, but we've never had any classes together. So we aren't really friends, but occasionally we'd exchange Hi's and How are you's if we see each other at school. So how would I open to her online on FB?

well i take it you already have her on FB, but im gonig to say jsut a hey how are things gonig? miss me as your locker buddy yet or something? anything will work pretty much; its not how you open, its how you can continue and progress the conversation.

Gooluck

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Dear PUAunderstudy,

This is a common area that a lot of highschool guys do fall into. There are two different methods here and it highly depends on if you already have her added as a Friend on FB already or not. Either way though you require a strong and unique opener so you are not lost in the crowd here. Let's get started

The first and most important bit of advice I'm going to give you here is

Do NOT try the advice of Fly9 basic dreary openers do NOT help when you are trying to make an opener with a girl that you have had a minimal relationship with. If you are talking to a close friend then sure go ahead whip out the small talk, but you are trying to make yourself stick in this girls mind instead of the other guys that she runs into

Now lets say she doesn't have you as a friend on FB yet, what you are going to do is send her a friend request with a cute little message with a unique flare to it, a tiny bit of a neg is important
Then let her accept the friend request, now that you have initiated, wait and sit back and see what happens, if she brings in an opening conversation ~hopefully a cute reply to your message~ then you are good to go, step into a bit of a flirting game and neg a little. If she doesn't then you wait a day or two before making your next post as you do not want to seem desperate or clingy. ~To see what to post move on to the next senario~

Senario two, if she already has you on FB head straight to her wall and do one of the following depending on how close you were with the girl and how much rapport there is

Not close at all That senario is the lame cop out really if you feel you need to use it you may find yourself in the friend zone fast so I do recommend you try and bump up to the next one even if you are unsure, yet that one at the very least gets you talking on a good note

Somewhat close to the girl If they give you a generic nothing much reply it can be a pretty heavy wall and many people will drop out there but your best bet is to hit them back with a neg like and last but certainly not least my favorite method it is your classic hit or miss, if you know the girl well there isn't much risk but this one has the best gain so if you have the guts, or don't care if she doesnt want to be friends if this is a miss, or know her well pull out the big guns and write
The important thing to note here is your being a bit of a tease and a bit cocky, but in reversing the adjectives you are suggesting to her subconcious that she wants to take you out instead of you asking, also coffee can be seen as non-serious so it gets you in there, lets you get face to face so you can start stepping up the game.

I hope this helps!

Signed,
Dr Highlander

I can't believe no one has suggested this instead: just talk to her in real life!

I know this forum is for online game, but if you see her in real life, the AFC thing to do is to talk to her online. Grow a pair and approach her. I know it's tough at first but you'll have a better shot than anything you do online. Girls respect confidence.

If you no longer see her around then online would be the only thing you have.