| Ok just some essential background: so I've been in China for the last 5 years, and speak fluent (though not native) Chinese (I'm a white guy btw, from Canada).
I'm no PUA expert or anything but generally I can do fairly well with Chinese girls, they're pretty easy to impress. A lot of the basic assumptions and whatnot are different though. The biggest thing to realise is that the social dynamic is completely reversed here; even HB9s don't assume they have higher social value than a white guy (though most HB10s do) and so by far the biggest obstacle to overcome is comfort and rapport rather than establishing attraction. Although I'm pretty average to a white chick, my particular features seem to appeal greatly to Chinese girls (specifically my having very white skin and being muscular but small; only 64 kgs. A deep tan and a huge body are turnoffs to Chinese girls).
So to get to the specific situation at hand. In the summer it's really hard to run a bar game because this is a university town and most of the girls (and boys for that matter) go home, leaving all the bars at half capacity. So I've decided to brush up on my massage girl game. In China, a bathhouse and massage is the equivalent of a strip club, so you can think of a massage girl as a stripper. Today I got a HB low8 and decided after qualifying her for a bit to make my move as she seemed like a fun girl and gave off a vibe of being a good fuck. So I start running my best game on her as she's giving me a handjob (that's part of the massage) and I feel like it's going pretty well, getting some good IOIs, and afterwards I decide to pay for some more time and another HJ as I was pretty sure I could escalate and fclose her right there and then. So sure enough things start to get really hot and heavy, she starts necking me and kissing/licking my nipples, which is definitely not supposed to be included in the massage, and then gradually lets me finger her to an orgasm and lick her nipples too.
Now the strange part; that was the line beyond which she would not cross. Under no circumstances could I get those panties or that tight little massage girl outfit off of her, it was incredibly frustrating how much self control she had even while orgasming to my fingers. I'm pretty sure it wasn't a fake, she was plenty wet enough. So I try to ramp things up psychologically and start telling her that if she wants to make me come faster she's gotta start telling me all the dirty things she wants to do to me, and she very enthusiastically, breathing heavily right into my ear, tells me all kinds of shit she wants to do with me, in all kinds of different positions and locations, and right then and there she almost made me come again but I managed to control myself. And so I told her that I'm a very visually oriented person and it would help a lot if I could see just a bit more of her body but all she volunteered was to get one little nipple peaking out of the neckline, no way was she gonna take that shit off. I basically ran out of things to try and to say to her after about 40 minutes like this and finally let her make me come, and at least managed to number close her.
This is a little bit strange in my experience. Massage girls are brilliant at LMR without killing the mood, that's basically their whole job. But generally if a massage girl decides she's going to LMR a guy she does it long before letting him finger her to an orgasm. I generally know if I'm going to fclose a massage girl pretty early on, but this one really had me guessing right to the end. Which of course means she 'won' because I paid for 2 handjobs when what I really wanted was a handjob and an fclose.
So I guess my questions are
1) Is there anything more I could/should have done to fclose her there?
2) Is there any point in calling her up later, or is she just going to LMR me to hell and back again?
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