Hi all,

Im 27 and in a relationship of 10 monthes, im unsure whats wrong with my relationship but i find myself always looking at other women, and even trying to get into them, my gf is a great girl so kind and caring, but she just isnt sexy, we do have sex but it takes me abit to get into it!, problem is we are suposed to be going to new zealand for 3 monthes in nov so not sure what to do, but if we finish im worried it will take me a long time to find love again, as my home town has a population of around 50,000 and the night life is crap, and only comes alive at the weekend and my job as a joiner means i dont meet many people/females, i find im getting very down at the moment, any ideas, should i move away?, there is a large uni town nearby called lancaster and that is only 20 mins away so wont be far from friends and family, is it worth a go?

umm. no dont cheat on a girl.... at least breakup then go seek other stuff.

there are alot of girls around, but finding them takes work. if you find someone that blows your mind and is caring geniune and wife material, u should keep her

but it bodes incredibly bad that ur thinking of this for ur current relationship

To be honest i am quite dissappointed that you are actually thinking of doing this to your gf. Shame on You

Well yeh its not good iam aware of that, but let me ask you this, have you ever been 'trapped?' in a relationship?, damed if do damed if i dont! so answer, let the situation dictate!

your 27, in control of your own life with you own decisions because you are supposed to be a leader, if you do pick up you already know, this lifestyle comes with some morals that you learn on your own,
ps - leave them better than you found them, your a pua you'll be fine

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Ok man, thanks for the advice, im not going to end it right away, im going to see how it goes over the next few weeks, but like you say im a leader so picking up shouldnt be a problem!

Thanks dave