I went to a party and started gaming a girl who I've met before.
She used to have a boyfriend, but they brooke up like 2 months ago.

I thought I was doin really well.. building comfort, kino.
I told her she would get points when she did good things (read it somewhere on the forum, great stuff!! thanks) and when she reached 50 I'd consider kissing her.

She is all over me doing poses, suckin her own finger, telling stories about herself.
N-close.
She's texting me for the next two days. Trying to get more points.
We meet up at a party, she finnaly gets her 50 points.
And its a k-close.
Then everyone at the party leaves for a club. I end up in the back of the line cause we went there by diffrent cars... inside she ends up makin out with this other guy, witch takes her home. And I find out they have had something goin for a couple of weeks but they hadn't had sex or kissed or anything...

What happend here?

It really pisses me off, cause this guy is a fuckin bore and he didn't make her laugh, he didn't make her suck her own finger to get his attention, her friends dont know him (and they sure liked me)...

She was really into me, but he got into her.
Should I laugh? Should I cry?

Whatever. More fish in the sea.

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You can't win them all you know!:)
Sometimes luck just isn't on our side.

Btw, about the other guy. I believe this is a classic example of buying temperature.
- Exerio

Probably....

Well, thanks for your support man!

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Theres a good chance you were building her up, setting her to a state, and he just got lucky with the times he contacted her.
I've had that before now

Girls can be working on multiple guys too. It sounds like you were playing it right with her, but if she's a bit drunk/horney/slutty then she might just settle for what's in fron of her at the time.

I wouldn't get hung up over her - if you still wanna get with her casually then carry on what you're doing and it could be you next time going back with her. Don't forget to carry on gaming other girls too though, she'll soon realise what she's missing

maybe she is just having her fun after coming out of a relastionship. You win some you lose some.

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This really is a NON issue unfortunately.

It's not like you were dating her so it doesn't matter that she went off with someone else.

I think she's just one of those prick tease types. Maybe she was using you to massage her ego.

Normally, you can micro-analyse it to the point of failure, but with this I'd just sing and accept it and move along. Sounds like you did all the right things but it didn't fall for you.

Girls work on an investment level as well. So an uglier guy who has had more investment than you would probably stand more of a chance going home. Hence why the ex-boyfriend is always such an issue.

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Sounds like she's just sleeping around and having fun. Dont give her shit. Get in touch with her freaky side. When they show enough interest make your move earlier....even before the 50 points. If she acts particularly naughty, get even naughtier and f-close right away.

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I belive this to be very true.

The thing is with theese kind of girls..
For me they arn't GF material, they are just for fun.
And to get a girl who's all about fun after having a boyfriend for 2 years,
you cant be needy (like her BF probably was), but still not to far away to disarm situations. Now, Im not very in to disarming other guys.
If girl is semi attracted I would never follow her around all night.
But If I had been at the club 5 minutes earlier... She would have been mine.

Fortunatly there has been other succesfull approaches and closes since that.

Interesting situation though.

Thanks for your replies guys!

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