Big Sticking Point! How do I tell them I have a gf?



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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 2:56 pm 
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Gaming a girl is hard enough as it is (at least for me!) however how do I tell them I've already got a gf (who lives in another town).

I travel quite a bit through work and would like to have some MLTRs. When gaming a girl however I don't want to lie and tell them that I'm single. I believe in being honest and playing with open cards.

This is where the problem is. Everytime I game a girl as soon as it comes out that I have a missus then I'm cast immediately into the LJBF-zone. If I try to hit on them then I'm cast as a player and they don't wanna know.

So I've also tried mentioning it from the beginning which has left me in the LJBF-zone right away. I've tried NOT mentioning (so theoretically not lying) which has gone ok until it comes out that I do have a girl.

The only successes I've had has been pretending to be single...however this has led to bad conscience not to mention other problems etc.

Basically I'm after multiple fuck-buddies but without lying about my relationship status.

Cheers.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 3:08 pm 
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There really is no solution to this. Either you have to lie or break up with your current girlfriend. If you have agreed to date one girl you shouldn't even try gaming other girls, however, if you have an open relationship it may be an exit out of these problems.

- Exerio


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 3:23 pm 
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Telling girls I have a gf but it's an open-relationship is usually enough to put them off anyway. It has pretty much the same effect as saying I have a gf.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 8:38 pm 
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No, it isn't. Just word it differently. Instead of saying an open relationship you can say that you have a thing going on with her.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:39 am 
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This is an internal battle my friend. If you don't want to lie, either break it off or stop trying to do pick-ups while still with someone. If you don't mind lying, then obviously everything gets easier. The only scenario I can imagine where you change NOTHING, is gaming girls just for practice... to hone your skills and what not. And I'm sure that eventually you will find girls who don't ask you about someone else in your life or, even better, won't mind and still go home with you anyway. Eh?


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