Hey guys,
Last night I went out clubbing with some mates as it was one of my friend's birthday's. When we came out of the club I met my friend's girl mate ( HB 7). Anyway we chatted quite a bit and was a bit playful with one another but nothing more than that. I know she has facebook and I want to talk to her on there. Only the thing is I'm not really sure the best to go about this as I don't want to placed in the 'friends zone'. I want to 'game' her and get to the point where I can take her on a date.

My question really is I guess what would be best way to open this girl ? Would a poke be okay or is that a little weird ? Or should I send her message, or add her as a friend and write on her wall? Online sarging is all a bit new to me!

Really appreciate your help on this one guys.

Cheers

-- ** Enigma_7 **

Okay guys I was thinking of sending her message saying something like :

"Are you shy or something? I mean a few days have passed since we met and yet you still haven't added me or sent me a message on facebook...."

What do you think to that ?

i don't think that's a good opener. bcuz if the sentence is misconstrued on her part, she may easily think that you have been thinking about her ever since then and have been waiting for her to add you on fb

Yeah that's true I guess that makes sense. Any ideas what I could say instead ?

Thanks

dude read around the forum. Most of these questions have been answered before. I think we need some more stickies but w/e.

Other members have had success messaging before adding the girl. I've never tried that. I usually add the girl and go from there. If she messages me I message back very C&F. If she doesn't I open her with something (there are tons of opener threads on here, try to use something specific to her or modify the opener to her).

Once opened, build more comfort & rapport. Go for IM or number depending on how things go. Facebook IM is also good.