k so i open my first 2 set in a cafe in Carmel California 10 min wear i live 4m anyways, well i open with this line wow looks like there is a party over here... open successfully and the girls and i started talking and i was ignoring my target for the most part. i was trowing her some negs and everything( i was like wow you r so cute to bad your not my tipe, and she gave me like a omg look?! but then yet smiling =). any ways everything was going so well. but out of the no wear a guy came up and said the same bullshit i said ''Ohh it looks like there is a party over here?!' im like wtf in my head!!!!!! and the girls look at me and hem like wtf thats what he said. anyways he set down i the table with use and he was better then me he had much of the game then i did . so i look at my phone and said ig2g nice meting you girls. and no number nothing !!!! but wtf i was thinking in my head like wtf a pua open use the line i use and fuken got a way with it. and i did not realy taught there was PUA my hometown so i was shock! and my question is what do i do if a other pic up artis open a set!!!!!!!!!!!! that i open ?!!!

FUCK I AM MAD my target was fucking hot and i knew i wuld be able 2 get her number!! but some had to open my set !!!!! and blah blah blah ....................... i mean i was nerves and did not know what to do the books i had read show me how to pic up girls and not much of me vs another pic up artist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is some information out there about handling interruptions but not much. I actually wrote about this back in December on my blog.

http://jsmooth26.blogspot.com/2008/12/h ... n-set.html

Anyways, you might also want to search our AMOG techniques on the forum as well. Basically once you learn how to handle external interruptions as a PUA things flor pretty well. If you have been in set for a while and have already gained some rapport then its pretty easy to defend your set. If you have just gotten started then things will be much harder.

Hope the article helps,

Jon

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wow thank il check it out

PLOW. IGNORE CHODE. CONTINUE GAMING.

You let him affect your state. You became reactive to him.

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Are you from RSD? They're the only fuckheads that use that "chode" term anymore....

kk

blow him out ASAP. i don't know how to do this, as i have never encountered this situation, but time is not on your side here. also, he's entering the group and you're already in it, which gives you the advantage at the point in time at which the other PUA is entering. you have to have a stronger frame than him and read up on some tactics to blow him out (again, i don't know exactly what these are so i can't help on this angle).

or you could just look at him and say "this is my set" (PUA lingo that hopefully nobody else would understand) and with any luck he would get the hint and leave and the set would have no clue what you were talking about. idk if that would actually work, i suppose it would be a coin toss.

or, a 3rd suggestion, you could switch targets, and with him picking up one, it would then make it easier to pick up the other as he's probably isolating that one girl, diverting the other's focus straight onto you and hand-delivering you an automatic isolation without you having to do any work.

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i like you 2 idea beter lol but at the moment i was like wtf and nerves cuse i never fukin met onother pua and especially opening my set

Dude, you stumbled on a gold mine and just walked past it. You find another PUA who lives near you and is good, and you let him throw you out of ur frame, steal your set and make you upset. Soon as you realized he was a PUA, you should have thrown out some lingo like someone said in a prior post, then you use him as a wing. Two of you two of them, make sure you isolate your target before he gets a chance to, should be easy as you have been in the set longer. Hopefully he will respect the game and wing you like a true man would. Second mistake, you should of gotten his number, I was actually in mexico ( i live in canada near toronto) and I ran into a couple of guys down there who were pua's too and lived less than half hour from me. We exchanged names and have been in touch since. What im saying is that its always good to have someone else who is on the same page as you who can work with you.