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I'm a Christian, and I can hold my liquor. (after all, Jesus and his friends drank wine. Why can't I?) However, I personally believe in waiting until marriage for sex. Whether you guys do or not, that's not my place to say. You do what you want to do. I just don't like the idea of tempting these girls into doing something that they really are against. Yes I'm sure they might "want" it, but they are choosing to resist. I can tell you from a guy who practices abstinence, that it takes A LOT of will power to hold to that. By tempting these girls you are not only having them do what they believe is wrong, and hurting them in that aspect. You are hurting their ability to be independent thinkers with values that they adhere to. Not to mention that she'll feel like shit afterward. Being a virgin is something that she's proud of. If she wants to keep it that way, respect it! Losing her virginity can't be undone. And don't give that crap about "Oh I'm not forcing her. she's choosing to. I'm just giving her the opportunity" That is Bullshit! A real man would pick a girl who sticks to her values. If you stand in the way of a girl and her values, that my friend is fucked up.
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Valid point. It is clearly a controversial subject and one which must be dealt with sensibly. Going back to Wolf's point of leaving them better when you leave them, I think it is important to vet the girls, and only go for the more adventurous ones who may be open to it, rather than going after a die-hard Christian and in her eyes, 'ruining her life' for taking something special which means a lot to her.