No one has responded to my last post for whatever reason... This is the same topic except with a different title.

I've been recently having much more success with building attraction up to a point that the girl begins to move towards escalation on her. It kind of shocks my system because I don't have much experience with women *kind of* chasing me. Does anyone have any advice?
-AtbH

What are you asking for advice on man? How to let a girl come onto you?

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I'm asking for advice on how to reciprocate and not just freeze up when a girl starts to escalate on her side. For example while watching a movie or dancing I've found her easing closer and getting more comfortable, flirting with me in an attempt to have me reciprocate. I'm not accustomed to that kind of situation I'm used to failing when it comes to building attraction. Now that it's working more I'm having trouble building on the foundation and going for it once I'm in the door the first few steps. Thanks.
atbh

This is a post I answered against another users post... Help on Day 3 or something.... anyway his scenario in a nut shell. Was time for his day 3 with her, she shows interested, they kissed a little on the day 2. Now he needed escalation help.....

"Sounds like you need to do a little research on sexual escalation my friend.

Kissing already started so it sounds like she is into you, the key with sexual escalation is to establish that you are sexually interested in her and push from there. Girls don't like pussies, don't be a pussy and not push the envelope with her. She will more likely forgive you for pushing to fast than give you the second chance from not pushing hard enough.

Sexual excalation things that I employ...

Move the kino, areas like forearms and shoulders are cool for friends, lovers touch faces, hair, hands, upper thighs, lower back.

Back rubs work wonders bud!

Tell her SOMETHING ABOUT HER is sexy and turns you on. Not that SHE is sexy... Example "The way you move your hips when you walk makes you incredibly sexy" NOT "Your hips are sexy"

Get the idea?

She will get the hint, once you start don't stop! You got this one in the bag brother!"

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Well I just finished a short movie/tea date with her at my house and I'm so golden right now! You all sure did help with me realizing that to go for it and to be bold are good methods of escalation. A sweet good bye kiss and all grins as her dad came to pick her up! Thanks a MILLION!
-atbh

Great brother glad I could help! Really a lot of pickup has to do with your inner confidence. Your right about being bold. As long as you deliver it with confidence and a smile if she's feelin you it will go over well.

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