You are talking to a girl - at first waiting for the bus then inside the bus - she is smiling following your orders and she asks and asks many questions and touches you and you start telling a story but notice that you don't know when she gets off the bus. So you say "That's a long story when do you get off" "at X". You think it is too soon for a nc and you remember a line you heard from women a lot and you decide to use it yourself:

"well the story is too long, I am going to tell you if we occasionally meet again".
Ouch, this neg did it's job way too well. You see her mood drop to a kind of sadness. But she recovers soon.

You start palm reading. You amp up her mood. She now looks at you with more intensity. Now you say: "Now it is too late for you to give me your number, I guess" "Yeah I also think we should see each other occasionally again".

You know that she could now turn it and give you the number. But she doesn't. You know that you are not responsible for her but you are doing your best. But you get proof again that women don't take responsability even if it is in their favour. So even though it was easy for her to do the tiny step she didn't do it.

It is so short so intense of a conversation. But this fucking asshole of a woman does not do even the tiniest step. It is intense only because of you, it is only you, if a brick would send the same pheromones and would be smiling you could do it with a brick.

What can you do differently next time you use "see each other occasionally again"?

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The way you wrote that. It sounded like it was a dream.

But if I were you. Iwould just not bother with a girl like that. I feel your frustration though. It's just fuckin ridiculousness.

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It don't mean a thing.
Not a goddamn thing!