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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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cipan
PostPosted: Sat Jul 25, 2009 12:39 pm 
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Hey guys.

I got this HB with whom I've been building comfort for quite a while online and over the phone. We hit it off quite good since we share a lot of things in common, so I had this ongoing thing where we're supposed to be soulmates, married and divorced several times. It' might've been pushed a bit too far but i dunno for sure. We've never met IRL coz she lives far away.

Anyways she's in town these days and we're supposed to go out for lunch tomorrow. Just now I got a text from her askin for a raincheck coz she's "in a depressing mood now" and that she "wouldn't want to be all depressing on me" tomorrow. I'm thinkin to show her that I AM the cure to her depression, that I'm fun and exciting and that's all the more reason she should see me. Would that come off as a bit desperate? What do u guys reckon I should do n say?
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The date's over or are you still looking for advice ?
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This seems to me like a bit desperate, because why would you be the cure to her depressions?

Instead, tell her that depressions come from isolation from great moments, and that you want to share great moments with her. If she refuses then fair enough, but who would say no to someone that offers a great time?

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Hey guys.

I got this HB with whom I've been building comfort for quite a while online and over the phone. We hit it off quite good since we share a lot of things in common, so I had this ongoing thing where we're supposed to be soulmates, married and divorced several times. It' might've been pushed a bit too far but i dunno for sure. We've never met IRL coz she lives far away.

Anyways she's in town these days and we're supposed to go out for lunch tomorrow. Just now I got a text from her askin for a raincheck coz she's "in a depressing mood now" and that she "wouldn't want to be all depressing on me" tomorrow. I'm thinkin to show her that I AM the cure to her depression, that I'm fun and exciting and that's all the more reason she should see me. Would that come off as a bit desperate? What do u guys reckon I should do n say?

HB: I'm in a depressing mood
PUA: Good so am I. why dont we both meet up and cry together in some really good restaurant (NLP here)
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I kinda have to not competely agree with u Marc...

it is an excellent way a PUA would handle that shit test but sometimes it comes down to either she is flaking or just depressed. It makes her incharge if she jumps throught that hoop. Because she knows he is pushing it and desperate to see her!

Honestly , Cipan if she wants to see u then she will...the more u push it the more desperate u look. You should demonstrate to her that u have a life other than hangin wit her..if she gave u the same crap even after using Marc's advice , Just show some DHV and tell her ur gonna go meet another "friend" bcoz u understand that she needs her "time" alone! Shows tat ur not just gonna jump through her hoops!

P.S: yeh i ve been in ur situation when I was dating this hb 8, whose really insecure about her self!

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