Hi guys.. I am from Malaysia, an Asian, u can call me White. I have a couple of experience with approaching girls but still not that good. So I need everyone helps.

My case is I meet an attractive gal in my college this new semester. I seen her quite many times but I have no clue bout her, not even her name or courses she is taking. A total stranger. What I notice bout her is she wears nice clothes and she seldom walks or eat with her friends, mostly alone. She look like an introvert but then sometimes talks quite a lot. So, i need everyone help. I need a very natural opener so that i can approach her when she is alone anywhere in the college and able to attract her and get her number.

Sorry for my bad language.
GUYS PLS HELP!! YEA~~

How about his:

" Hi, I saw you from over there and noticed that you have really a great fashion sense. You look great. What else do you have going for you? "

Remember, it's not the words that come out of your mouth that matter that much, it's how they come out and how comfortable you are in your body when you do so. There is no magic words that will make her turn around, drop her panties, lift her skirt and bend over (or fall in love hopelessly with you... which ever fantasy floats your boat...)

Seems natural but there is a problem that I am always been thinking. In Malaysia or maybe for Asian, it will be weird if an unknown guy suddenly talk to a gal and mostly if there is, there will be only for one reason that is the guy is interested in that gal and the gal will mostly reject. If i were talking something else and at the end i wan to take the girl number it will be very very obvious that i am interested in that gal. So,if it is obvious the risk will be higher~ so is there any solution for this part?

Is it bad in Asia for guys to be attracted to girls? The thing is that only guys with high self confidence will approach a girl that way. That is attractive to a girl. Most guys will think "ok she's hot but I can't approach her because she will reject me so let's figure out something else to go talk to her about" and never do anything.

I would say try opening her with an opinion on something its the most easiest natural opener you can find... usually it will always get them talk to you, then from there you need to carry about the convosation and get to know her ...

Don't fret buddy.
You could say something like this :

1." Hey!....
I have a mission today to talk to the hottest girl in college....(pause)
Do you know, where I might find her ?"

2. "Hey you have a piece of fluff in your hair. Let me get it out for you....
So, what's your name ? ... Well [name], I've just made you more attractive - you owe me !"

3. Hey, I figured you probably don't get much attention from guys so I thought I'd come and say hi!

well since you only see her in college some openers you can use

* if she carrying books or stuff for her class*

you-" hmm that book or *item* looks intresting.. what class is that for?

her-'its for(subject)'

You-" really i wouldnt have taken you for that kinda of person. thats very intresting"

you can run a routine here * something related to the topic like * whos a better lair men or women* *if you can be darkness or sunlight and why?*


if she eating lunch or something

you-" is that tasty?"

her-" yes/no"

you-" where did you get that from?"

you gotta follow the steps before trying to number close her. Build attraction first. Even if you didnt get her # the first time. This time you are more acquainted . build up rapport and eventually you get her #. Remember try not to end up in the friend zone! Teleagraph your intrested in her once you get her attracted to you.


i know that Gaming in Asian countires are diffrent from the UK and the states. I know .coming from California and then moving to tokyo its a whole diffrent style of gaming. All due to how the culture of the society is. good luck and keep us posted!

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