Damn guys, Learning moment for me!

Here it is. After dinner a girl I really like texted me.
She: Are you going to bed early tonight?
Me: probably not... why?
She: What are you gonna do tonight?
Me: just finished training and dinner, so chillin' I'm gonna watch some tv.
She: Want me to come over for a few minutes (she was giving a false time constraint!) I'm passing your house on my way back.
Me: sure, sounds like fun to me! See you in a minute.
She: where are you living?
me: blalblabla

So far so good.. I wasn't prepared at all, there was food all over the place, so i cleaned my living room in a few seconds. There where no drinks in the house, except water.. My first mistake.. I was so stressed out about getting the house reasonable, that I got nervous! Not my thing, but I was working on this girl for a while and I didn't want to screw things up, because she has more value to me then other girls.

Soo... she was sitting there, I offered her a nice cold water and we talked a little.. like fluff talking, boring shit. She was comfortable and she was always attracted to me. I was getting comfortable, but the problem was she was sitting on a couch, and I was sitting on the other couch.. I guess I should've taken place next to her on the same couch. We where watching a lame ass quasi-entertaining show on tv and we where giving comments, pretty fun. But I couldn't reach her. I got stuck.. We just continued watching that show.. and after it ended, she said, "I should go home". I said "okay". Walking her to the door we started kissing, but I think wayy too late!! She was already on her way home. She had all the reason to stay at my place, to spent the night. I could've pushed it more, but I was scared to fuck up.. and this is not a girl I want to fuck up with..

How could I play this more smooth? I was too late with kissclosing at the perfect sex location! I was too scared to escalate! There was no kino until the end. I felt a little dissapointment by her and I want to make this happen.

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The more symmetrical you are, the more orgasms you will give her.

lol when u brought her the water, you shoulda sat next to her
i was in the same situation, i made out with this hb8 when she had to run home to babysit her little sister...we spent the day at a park i hated the suspense that built up near the end.

1 tip: man up, go for it, kino is like an exponentially growing virus, once you get past step 1 it grows at gets easier.

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Think the first mistake u made was in the texting. You gave her too direct of responses. Gotta play around with her a bit, she asks if ur goin to be early, be like is 3am early?...or wat are you planning on doing?....was thinkin bout runnin a marathon, baking a cake, organizing my dvd collection and if theres time....maybe do a thousand peice puzzle. Throw her off completely. When she said mind if i stop by for a few minutes, you should of responded somethin like, sure, but no funny business, i cant let my cake burn. So right away she pictures you and her fooling around but at the same time its a false disqualifier. The last guy was right, you should of sat down beside her when u gave her the water, then when you passed it to her, make sure u guys touch hands and then say something like " woah woah, tryin to hold my hand? I said no funny business" then while ur watchin tv on the couch beside her, then put ur arm around her or one that alwasy works for me is just say, hmmm wonder if ur ticklish, n poke her in the ribs, or tickle her knee. Esclataing the kino and having a good time. Things should progess nicely from there.