I recently broke up a girl and her boyfriend of 2 years, and she is now my girlfriend. We are both 19, so he was her only serious boyfriend in her life. Now, before him, she has never had sex or done ANYTHING other than make out with another guy (other than me now of course). We have started having sex among other sexual things, but everytime we start something like that, i think about how they have already done it or if i want to ask her if she has ever done something, the answer would have to involve him. This really takes my sex drive away mid-coitus and becomes a huge turnoff. I have honestly tried to just not think about it and think about how shes with me now and he is in the past. However, when these things come to mind, it usually upsets me because i want to have a healthy sex life. Any advice on how to get past these thoughts?

Grappler

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Ask her if you want to find out if they have ever done it. Its perfectly fine to ask her. And if you are not fine with a girl who has dont it before than thats your choice and its perfectly fine. Find a virgin.

Besides you are 19yrs old you should be out there learning about how to create attraction and how to become this person whom every girl wants