So I know about boy friend destroyers, but here's my situation.

The girl I am gaming is on vacation for the next few weeks, and after coming back from my own vacation, I notice she is texting another guy I hang around with sometimes quite a lot.

Shes already shown me IOIs like wanting to meet at places and hang out, but she hasnt texted me since I got back and Im worried she is starting to like this other, AFCish guy, more than me.

What can I do besides try to escalate with her to make her stop tlaking to this other guy she isnt yet dating. I know your normally supposed to make the boyfriend seem really good, but if they aren't yet together I cant imagine that working out well.