I didn't realize until today but when me and my friend hangout it's all cool. Then when he brings me around other people(girls) He starts throwing me off my game. He would joke on anything that I do, make fun of the way I talk(which isn't weird at all), and ignore me if I do try to talk. Sooner or later I just decide that I should be quite. After I hang out with him for like a day I tend to stay in the house for a long while before I try again. Like a week or so.. And now I don't know what I should do. Can anyone help me?

My tactic in these cases is like this:
If I make the approach through in the pick up line, talk and Neg for a few minutes than let him take over.
When the friend chimes in and acts like a pain in the ass or a suckup I hang back and act completely uninterested, this reads as mysterious. Make sure your body language is confident.
From time to time I jump into the conversation through some real good comments and NEGs (C&F big here) and then draw back. If the friend is really terrible with women they will eventually migrate to you out of sheer selection.
Remember, you want to look mysterious, uninterested and very confident. I find this works for me almost every time as long as the friend does not scare the girls away too fast.

Dont let him bitch you around like that.

If he starts AMOGing you,call him out,even in front of people.
Let him feel failure.

If he's out to get you afterwards,realize that he was never your friend.

Remember,the key theme of everything is respect.If you cannot command respect from others,then no one will ever respect you.

I had a friend who was an AMOG football jock(I was a bit taller than him,but he was 100x stronger).He would try to bitch me out of things,and I would just be like "So you act tough here,yet when no one's around,you're the nicest guy.Way to be yourself".

He'd get mad,but never attack me,cause the crowd had my back.When you win the crowd,you are invincible.

Do the same thing with you're good "friend"

People will laugh.He will be flustered/try to attack you,and you gain social recognition.

Today,my friend knows to respect,and I've actually trusted him enough to teach him the game(Before,he was riding on jock rep).He respects me more than he ever did now.

AMOG the AMOG.Even if ass-kicking is going to happen,go down with a bang.A bruise or scratch is better than being owned.

The Problem is I don't have to the crowd on my side. My social game is really bad. I'm trying to step it up by hanging out with friends before I try with the women but with him around it actually really hard to do even that. And when I did try to confront him about it. He would pull a "come on man. Everyone is having fun. Why do ya have to get mad all the time?" And that makes me look like I'm killing the the vibe.

PS Kicking his ass is no problem =P I just don't wanna look like a dick head

Hmm...this guy really is a dick.

Then tell him how you feel in private.If he understands and explains why,then work on that.

If he calls you out on it,and makes fun of you,fuck him.Anyone who fucks with a person to make themselves look better is a fucking douchebag,and doesn't deserve the kindness shown to him by his loyal peers.

I get what you're saying about not having a good social circle,and trust me,I'm in the same rut.I wont tell you to try to live through it,as that is useless info,but,find alternative people.Wait till there's a situation to meet new people,then meet em.Make friends.

K thanks a ton man.. Btw what do ya suggest I do If I do decide to hangout with him cause he is one of my only connect to the outside world.. and he does have a cousin (HB) that comes to his house like everyday

i agree with blackbull, dont go out and start fights but if one comes your way dont back down. this reminds me of my fav quote. "all i have in this world is my word and my balls, and i dont break ether of them for anybody."

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As for Mr.Alpha Dick:he's the social gateway type.Need him to have fun,dont want to be around him because of how he is.

Tough call dude.It's up to you.

Another question:What is you're age and area of education?

Well.. I'm 16 and not in the high school.... I was a good student but somewhere along the line I got mixed up in some bad stuff and started skipping everyday.. I tell everyone that I'm "home schooled" but really I sit at home and play video games... The more time I spent at home the harder it was for me to be social. I only have 1 friends left after that happen.... well one friend who's not gonna lead me deeper into this slump.

dude get your ged then go to collage if you wanna be social thats like a shark tank in the middle of a feeding frenzy. plus if u go to collages it dhv's u for someone educated. hopefully u will be. that and the girls are more typicaly friendly on campus , i think its easier to close with #'s sarging a daygame in between classes.

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Vash is absolutely right man.

GED,and then college.I dont want to sound opinionated,as I hate opinions and giving them(I'm a straight up Tell-it-like-it-is guy),but dude,trust me,in your situation,college is ESSENTIAL.

That way,you can make more friends,ditch that ass hemorrhoid of a friend you have,and secure a future while you're at it.

Dont worry about dropping out of HS dude.I had a friend who did that,and confided that info to me.I told him what I'm going to tell you:ANYONE can make it.All you need are:Balls,Plans,peace,and Happiness.

Hope this helps.

Thank you so much

I am in a similar thing, I have a best friend for about 20 years now, but he is the worst CB. We can open a set and he tries to pull the AMOG routine. He will pull punches about anything he can to make me and any other guy look small but gets pissed when I do it back. I will take last night for instance, we were talking to two HB7's and I had ran my opener of motorcycles (crotchrockets or cruisers) and me having a sportbike I use it as a defining point. If she doesnt like bikes or sportbikes, I will move on to something else but if she likes sportbikes I have one, so it can get into the convo better. Now my friend started making comments about the age of my bike, and how his is better. And after a few min of letting him try and belittle me i pulled out a big gun and made referance to something he had said the night before, that was very embarassing. In context it made him sound gay, but in reality it was just an oddly timed think he said. When the HB's laughed at him at his expence, he paniced and bailed on the set. Later that evening he tried to go off on me as I told him, dont ever CB me again like that. Now you see what you say has consiquences and you can watch what you say. Unfortunatly he has always been this way and i have let it slide for far to long, that now it seems second nature for him. He is also my gateway to get out since we have known each other for so long. He pretty much is the alpha in the group, but needs to knock it down a notch when we go out, or he can run solo.

This same thing used to apply to me. My friend was the coolest nicest guy ever...when he was 1 on 1, but in a group he was the biggest asshole. So eventually when we were 1 on 1 I would make comments that hinted to me belittleing him, but not enough for him to take offense, then eventually if he insulted me, I would just shake it off throw an insult back, or ignore it, and if he insulted back at my comment I would just say "whatever," like I didn't care. Nowadays when me and my friend are in groups, he subcontiously thinks of me as his equal, and almost never trys to AMOG or CB me. And on the rare occasion he does, I just ignore it. This really works dude, but be careful, because you don't want to come across as an ass, but you do want to be an equal.

Hope this helps you like it helped me. Goodluck man, peace out.

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theres this movie called bullie, your situation reminds me of the one in this movie. this guy is the super Amog the worst friend, and the movie showes you just dont need friends like that so either talk to him or lose him.