Some girls I know, and most hot girls I know, are in a perpetual state of Serial Monogamy. They will date/screw a guy until something better or more 'intriguing' comes along. If you come up to them they will shoot the 'I have a BF' most of the times. If you turn away, that's it for you. If not, then maybe you are worth it.

On the other hand some of them are happy with their BF and want to stay that way. Those will remind you later and block you kino and such. Just learn not to push too far.

I see her saying I have a boyfriend as letting me know what I'm working with. It's similar to her saying I stay with my parents/roommates we'll have to go to your house or I didn't drive here and you didn't either so we'll have to take a cab. It's just a stipulation that you have to work with. Honestly I'd be mad if a female didn't tell me she had a boyfriend and I end up having to deal with him and his jealous nature later.

Depending on what stage of attraction I'm in I'll usually say "Well, we'll have to be discreet then won't we" smile wink and continue from there.

These are the stages of attraction and what it means when she says them.

The Approach: "I've had so many guys try to hit on me tonight and you seem like one of them. I'm sorry but I'm trying to stay faithful."

Right after Transition: "You are intriguing enough to talk to and possibly have sex with...I just want to let you know that I come with a little baggage. If you play your cards right this will either be a one night stand or an affair. You'll have to deal with that."

During Isolation: "My friends probably think I'm a cheating whore being here with you and I want to throw this fact out so you and I both know that I told you. It'll make me feel better telling you now so later I can say it was all your fault when I wake up in your t-shirt."

On the Way to/at the Sex Location: "Please don't tell anyone we had sex. I have a boyfriend and a good reputation."

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Thats pretty much the same thing <_<

Interview with Keri Hilson out of XXL mag.
they were talking about being in a club environment and being approached by guys.

How do you let someone down easy?

I think the easiest way to let a man down is to tell him you’ve got a boyfriend, even if you don’t, because they can only respect that. Some guys don’t see the signs. You can be giving them all the yield signs and the stop signs, and they just still feel like you are giving them an inch, so they take that mile. It’s really sad that, for some guys to walk away without their tail between their legs, it’s easier to make up a story about having a boyfriend.

so yeah, they are saying that they are not interested, or not out tonight to find guys. what ever the reason may be, maybe you are really turning them on and they dont want to let their feelings start escalating, they know most men will walk away after this is said. u need to shoot past it if she is worth it.

any of the responses are good, just shoot thru it, ignore it, and keep talking.

i have a boy friend.
well thats nice, i have a tv, do you always spout out random things? who says im trying to hit on you anyways, you're not my type.

this would be a natural way to lead into the the your not my type routine mystery always does.

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ITS IS A SHYT TEST. The girl is trying to test ure frame she may or may not have one but why the (the smurf) lol would i care ? i dnt knoe her im trying to knoe her i just usually go omg no way , thts cute i have tons of them too.
It does not matter u can Break any womens principles with the effort i opend this target to today she said she had a boyfriend and still she said she had mondays off and wanted to meet me so it does not matter
THE ANSWER IS YES THE GIRL IS TRY TO TEST URE FRAME
U can even be playful and dramatic OMG IM SO proud of u , u have a boyfriend and i have 100s of them come here u ( Compliance) , im so proud of my little lady ( Neg) and then give her a hug or a pat in the back ( If she loves sarcasm this is great) Transition anywayz Who are u if more then one who are u ppl

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Who cares? It should be respected.

To not respect it probably means that you're desperate and dont realize that THERE ARE PLENTY OF GIRLS OUT THERE. Who cares if you dont get this one?

idk. i just trust the experts on this until i reach a level at which i can understand it. it's hard enough just moving through game, it's easier to trust in commonly-accepted pua wisdom until you learn otherwise rather than try to re-figure it out before trying it.
it can be a punishment/IOD depending on how it is given (i.e. you bored me, i'm saying i have a boyfriend). or it could just be a test in and of itself that she throws at every guy who opens her (a shit-test is not a conscious test, it's subconscious keep in mind) however, you can see an IOD itself as a shit-test from which you have to respond with your own IOD.

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Her: I have a boyfriend

You: Do you always date guys that are insecure and get jealous?

Her: Um no???

You: Then don’t worry about what your boyfriend is going to think about us having an intellectual conversation.....

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This happened last week.
At a club, ran into a person who put me in a bad mood. Anyway, returned to my mates and they had a group of girls with them. Initially I was still in a crap mood but then after a few minutes I started warming up and started gaming the girls.
The one shot "I have a bf" at me after a few minutes, I smiled and said "me too".
Anyway, at the end of the night she told me that she didn't really have a boyfriend, I just made a crappy first impression, which I agree with.
I picked her brain a bit the next day, there's a crapload of reasons why they use that line:
1) Bad first impression, geniunely not interested in you
2) They really have boyfriends and aren't planning on cheating
3) They have boyfriends but will cheat if you play your cards right, but they want you to know that it's just casual sex and it'll probably only be once off
4) You pissed them off
5) Shit test

Hope this helps.

This one is good

Hahaha this thread is full of lolz.

You guys are geniuses.

Her : "I have a boyfriend"

You : "Oh *Hit her with the end of your police warhammer* ... Opps I guess I have to HELP her up "

Works every time.

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i heard of an opener for a girl who's texting it goes...

"your wasting your time i tried texting her earlier but she said she couldn't hear me"

then she should laugh or some shit but if she answers you some thing along the lines of..

"actually I'm texting my boyfriend"

then you can reply

"you must be mistaken i haven't given you my number yet"

I dont know where i heard this, maybe even on this board but it my fav if it works right and is hilarious

GIRL: I have a boyfriend
YOU: Taxi Cabs are usually smelly
GIRL: What?
You: Oh! I thought we were talking about things that dont fucking matter.

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hahaahah
thats epic....

I live and die by this guys: "Just cuz there's a goalie in net, Doesnt mean you cant score"
Don't let the bf thing be a deterant, i like to think of relationships as passing time until something better comes along. So just be something better than what shes got.